You know, I tried telling myself that already. And I wish she would come back crying just so I can get my 'revenge'... It just pisses me off that she strung me along so far then cuts me off like that for another dude without saying a word... Plus if she ever did come back, now knowing it was because of another dude, I can't forgive her for that... And I do believe she missed her chance with me but to be fair we weren't in a relationship anyway and we did live pretty far... But one thing for sure, I'm definitely gonna give her all the space she needs and move on... She'd have a tough time getting back into my life now... This one definitely stung...

dude seriously?? Stop making excuses for her and bloody move on, you are already a tool to her eyes and most of the guys in here anyways, there is no need to push it to another level, grab your balls and walk away. how can you be so invested with this girl just beacse you guys text for a couple of months? you gotta learn to control your dam feelings otherwise you'll always be on the edge of a cliff. my advise move on and forget this chick. STOP making excuses for her, and learn from this. you were so caught up with the IDEA of this relationship with her that you did not realize she played you and now your hooked. This is a Game so play it right, This is the harsh reality and you just got to accept what is and have faith on what will be. goodluck

I only say that because that was the turning point in everything... Once that happened she never initiated anymore or put effort... The whole time we were talking I never showed too much interest, I made her work for my time and of the times we went out SHE had to cancel work, I know the basics of the game and I kept it cool till the very end if anything... It just seemed logical, but I have no fcking clue because I got no closure and it still bothers me... And how am I a tool in her eyes? Explain to me where I fucked up with her? Because it isn't clear to me since shit went well... The biggest negative in the 'relationship' was the fact we lived an hour apart and had conflicting/busy schedules...

I know it's not good to be so invested in a girl after a short time but from the girls I dated this is the first time we clicked from day 1 and when she was all over me at first, I guess I liked it and enjoyed the attention... When she disappeared without a word after all that how could I not miss it or be hurt? She was the one drilling a future/relationship between us in my head and she even showed me pics of her friends and family and told me all about them and how I would meet em...

I have never heard from her since and I never bothered contacting her either... I would still love some closure here because I really did like this girl and she definitely liked me at one point at least... But I have been moving on and dated better looking girls and this one is still on my mind, she got me good and if it was possible to get this girl back I'd love to go for it... I think I'm so sprung on her cause she is exactly the type of girl I've been looking for in terms of her personality / having her shit together... Hopefully I meet a girl like that again, just sucks to find the type I like and lose her and end up dating girls who lack what I like in a girl...

If you are worried you will lose a girl after only having been with her 2 times, losing this girl is the least of your concern. I would suggest you go out tonight with an experienced wing and sarge like there is no tomorrow. Don't drink, number close as many as you can, but target to instant date a girl and at least kiss-close her. Forget the girl you wrote about and fuck as many as you can within the next 3 months. Then re-evaluate what you feel about her. Most likely she will seem significantly less attractive to you at that point. Otherwise, attempt to reignite by sending some funny messages. If she replies, keep the texting sessions very short but keep them fun. Make her laugh and then disappear for 2 ro 3 days. Bust her balls (alway remember there's a fine line between a neg and an insult, so don't overdo). Start playing a game with her (sms hangman seems working well, use funny words at that. Give her a nickname one day, greet her with that nickname a few days later and use it in a hangman game). Alway use time differential. Always keep sessions short and then disappear for days. Never text on weekends. Even if things don't work out with this girl, it should develop mental discipline for the next one who makes you want her more than just a fuck material. And most importantly, ALWAYS be ready to cut her lose and go away. There is plenty of women and a hotter, smarter and sexier one is just around the corner.

I appreciate the reply... I'd love to go out and sarge but I am stuck on crutches for another week or so... Been on them for the past 2 weeks and it's been hell...

But I will try your approach, I'll use her kicking me to the curb as motivation to go out and meet more girls...

The only thing that worries me is that I played it so well with the original girl, our texting was fun, that was probably why she kept contacting me. I gave her a couple nicknames already and I always negged her and was very sarcastic and she LOVED it... I think part of the problem I was way too available during texts than I was in person... So if I do re-initiate I will definitely be more unavailable... I did keep all the basics on mind though, I never rushed with replies or anything, I kept time differential in mind. I also even acted busy at times when I wasn't just so I could not be so available. So I did have these in mind... I'm just surprised she hasn't missed any of it, or maybe she does but rather stay no contact for some reason...

But thanks for the advice, getting this chick outta my head is my priority right now...

What put you into crutches? If otherwise safe and no permanent health damage is imminent go sarge with crutches. Dress hot. Don't go to a club obviously as approaching a set on crutches is obviously needy. Instead go to a lounge and position yourself strategically so it's easy for you to open passing sets kind of half-turning their direction and turning back on them when appropriate. Have your wing bringing sets to you. If you make up a good DHV story regarding your crutches (at that, being a wounded Navy Seal is not a DHV story. A hilarious accident while rescueing a baby whale last weekend when you and your best buddy rented a yacht is), they can play to your advantage. So evaluate yourself and go. As far as "the chick", we've all been there one way or another. It's called oneitis.

Nothing serious, just a sports injury... Keeping me out of the gym and playing sports so my mind is going nuts over this chick... I know I have oneitis but out of any girl I ever dated I never clicked with a girl like this, I mean she has the potential to be "the one" considering her lifestyle and personality and all... That is the only reason why I still want to try with this chick. I mean if she is never going to contact me again, I rather give it a shot and try again.. But I also don't mind waiting and finding different girls so I can 1. better my game, 2. not have strong feelings for her or even meet a better girl

Haven't done much approaching but I guess I got no choice at this point. Although, I do have some girls in rotation again, just not the same quality/personality I like in a girl

Men don't take revenge bro. That's the state of mind that keeps your thoughts drawn back to her. There will be many women after her who would "click" that way. If you go mental over each you'll necome a nervous wreck. Sarge as much as you can, eventually surround yourself with not just HBs but women that you consider your type and rotate them. There is a time to eventually open up to one (or two? ) of the girls, but it is certainly not before she's been around long enough that you are absolutely sure that she would rather let you flake on her than flake on you.