Have you read the entire thread?

She began the texting and texting me everyday, that is why I'm so hung on it... When she suddenly stops initiating and ignores my texts there is a problem...

We kissed on the first date, and heavy makeout on the second... Things have been escalating, the only problem is we live an hour away and have conflicting schedules so it is hard to meet up usually...

So it seems like your gut feeling is way off here... Something else set her off and I really think it is because I bailed on the 3rd meet up without telling her really...

I know what's happening with you testin...it's a sh1t test..my girl is doing this to me right now too..the whole ignoring thing..she wants to see if you'll chase her..but if you proceed to not react to her tests..she'll come crying back and will want you more..so just act like it doesn't hurt you..and follow the whole 'Fake it 'till you make it' saying..trust me on this one.

At this point, there is nothing you CAN do, except move on. No amount of text or calling will change anything, even if she were to reply/answer, you would just come off as needy and clingy.

Girls don't change unless they want it themselves. Accept it for what it was and not what you it to be.

Fuck her anyway, focusing this much attention on her is time wasted for next 10 standing in line waiting for the chance to get stuffed by you.

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I hope the damage isn't done already so I'll hold out from contacting her and see what happens from there... Usually girls get showered with attention so it is way easier for them to control themselves... But thanks for that post, it helps big time.

It is hard to chase a girl and not act needy/clingy... So you're right I'll just ease off and see if she contacts me, if not, her loss... I think I was way too high valued for her anyways...

Mate this kind of thinking is very destructive. Because if you think you are too good for her it will prevent you from seeing the mistakes you made. It's a mechanism to defend your ego.
I used to think this way when I got dumped. But there is one thing you need to ask. If you are too high value for her, then why did she leave you ? I'm not saying it's all your fault but you made mistakes.
Re-read your thread in a couple weeks I'm sure it will help. Good luck with the next one

I know I made mistakes, not sure what caused me to lose her interest so suddenly though... I really wish I knew what I did wrong so I can learn from it at least...

And when I say I high value I mean I have qualities that not many people do...
- I'm successful, financially secure with a great job at 23
- Own a beamer
- In great shape, I go to the gym 5-6 days a week
- I play basketball on the regular
- I'm above average in looks, most girls find me really cute
(These qualities were gold for this girl, at least the type she was anyway)

To name a few... But what struck me with this girl is we had A LOT of similar interests such as music, sports, and our busy lifestyles... She was really into me before she knew most of my good qualities too... And this girl doesn't have the greatest confidence, she considers herself average at best in terms of looks but she is fairly hardworking and all... She is unique I'll give her that...

But this is why I'm so confused about how she just pulled the 180 so suddenly...

#1 Answer; Because she has a vagina.

Simply put, Your hot and sexy vibe is got its ass kicked by your needy and clingy actions.

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Since its been almost two weeks even if this girl contacts you now I would walk away....I had a girl wait two weeks to get back to me, we then met up again, she was all over me etc. was met with last minute resistance when we got back to her place and couldn't close. But I walked away thinking I would see her again soon and fclose....I texted her after and guess what...didn't hear from her for two weeks. I walked away at that point all the while I couldn't have been hooking up with a sure thing which I blew bc I had tunnel vision just like you for a girl that doesn't even text back.

What set a needy vibe though?? She ignored me before I even set that tone in the last couple texts I sent her... The most neediness I showed the whole time either matched her level or less, till of course the last string of texts I guess... It is just funny how she was in that relationship mode / lovey dovey type shit saying all that relationship ish like 'hubby' 'boo' 'bae' or whatever else the fuck she called me then days later cuts me off lol...

Does no one here think she got mad that I bailed on her on the 3rd date??
Don't know if I mentioned this already but she did complain that we had busy/conflicting schedules, lived an hour apart and didn't see eachother much... She also said 'Our lives are too fast paced for eachother' one time but I don't know if she was serious...

So your girl actually contacted you? My plan right now is to ignore her first text if she contacts me, if she sends a second text ill ignore it for a couple days then get back to her... And this time I'll cut the texts big time and starting calling her instead... Change the game big time and make her adjust for me...

Not exactly what I said.

A case of NRS, "No reply Syndrome" that backfired.

Or did you possibly consider someone else might be Stuffin-her-Muffin?
Best option, just don't let it stop you from shopping for NEXT!

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I got a date on Saturday with another girl and two girls lined up... So I'm trying to move on... But of these girls I already know I connect better with the last girl...

And I don't know if there was another guy in the picture or not... There could have been but the amount of time and effort she spent texting me made me believe I was the only guy in the picture aside from her needy ex that keeps trying to talk to her (which she mentioned)... Besides she would randomly drunk text me when she was out with her friends and shit so if I was on her mind that much I was at least on top of her list lol... Plus all the amount of good morning / good night texts made it clear I was on her mind every night and day...
But who the fuck knows now...

So there actually is another guy in the picture... Not sure how long he was in it... I guess my best bet is to fade away?

Hate to say I saw that coming Bro.

Fade away? Men don't fade.

Personally, I do not believe in trying to find “closure’ because some things in life do not have logical explanations and therefore no logic can bring a soul-filling “resolution”.

It takes your courage to say "I deserve better" and make it stick and to hold the line. This can be an opportunity for you to move the in the direction YOU want to go. FUCK her.

No one should ever settle for mediocrity, yet so often the women we date either hold us back, bring us down, or simply hurt us in one way or another down the road. But yet we want them back?

The the girl is flaky, she isn't worth your time either. One day she loves you. The next day she's not sure. The third day she wants to have your children. The fourth day she needs some space. Give her as much space as she needs, and never come back.

Know in your mind, she fucking missed HER chance.

They build new ones every day, Hotter, Smarter, Sexier.
When your on top of one of these girls, SHE will fade away!

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