I didn't read all of the back and forth conversations between the two of you, but IMO you are trying to effing hard!

Stop being so available, stop talking about shit that is not sexual/witty when you're texting her. And for gods sake, stop seeking her approval so damn much! As a matter of fact Stop Thinking so much!

This girl is dropping hints on you like crazy "Bad! I'm always bad, but in the best way" then you F closed her. After a little discomfort on your part, you're next text was something about a banana? Maybe not the best idea, but I see what you were trying to do. Let her chill for a bit, if you fucked her properly, she will talk herself into contacting you. But for the time being you are just a cool guy that she has fun hanging out with. As long as you guys are not "in a relationship" do not let yourself become boring (i.e. keep gaming her). Wait a few days and then send her some random Funny/witty text or funny photo (Do not let this turn into a conversation). Just fire the text and then forget about it. This helps keep you on her mind with positive reinforcement.


Peace...

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hey man, i have no idea what part of the convo you've been reading. i hope its the last message. ive come a long way from the wuss i was when i first met her.

can you please elaborate on what you mean by :

*do not let yourself become boring

*send her some random Funny/witty text or funny photo (Do not let this turn into a conversation)


*Stop being so available - how an i conveying this from what i have elaborated?

*stop talking about shit that is not sexual/witty when you're texting her - HOW?

*And for gods sake, stop seeking her approval so damn much! - i dont believe i was, is there something that made you realise otherwise?

from the texts shes sent me ive made a monumental mistake. i realize this

i even switched venues to hers, when she said u wanna see me so come here

any ideas?

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well the deal is this...

her ex still hounds her on Facebook. just about every post on her page he either likes or comments on. im not bothered if she gets back with him because i want ot have her around as a FB and if this leads to a relationship then so be it. what im really trying to figure out is this behavior where shes flaky on texts.

i dont wanna be needy by bombarding her with texts, i havent had a contact from her in about a week. she said she is staying in this weekend but next weekend she will be out. i've commented on one of her photos on facebook as Crypto had suggested, where she was with her son. and left it there. so far the only reesponse is that she had hit the like status on the comment.

she mentioned that she isnt ready for a relationship the morning after i f closed, and looks likes shes still not fully over her ex.

whats the best way to re-engage this sitution and proceed to make this weeknd something useful?

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C'me on guys! anything?

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Your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny.