At this point in time her considering you as a "friend" to one of her friends really isn't a bad thing because you two haven't labeled each other as anything. There was no need for her to tell her friend she was seeing you or anything of the sort. If you do meet up together and you guys are doing the project just be yourself. If you like her, try to generate attraction, when it's time go in for the case. It's all about what you want, if she doesn't respond to you leaning in for the kiss then obviously you move on the next girl.

Why would you not try anything on her in the first place? If you don't pull any moves then she is DEFINITELY going to friend zone you. Your also going to be faced with the fact that you didn't at least give it a chance by attempting. When you reflect later, you will be more upset at yourself for not trying than actually trying and getting shot down.

With that being said, how the fuck are you falling in LOVE with this chick? I'm not here to demoralize your manhood or to judge how you feel but you need to really assess the situation and try to find out how and why you feel the way you do. For god's sake you barely know this girl...

You are absolutely right; I actually regret not kissing her at some point during the evening. And I suppose there was no other way to introduce me when I think about it. And I think she would respond to me kissing her; it's just that I am starting to really like her, so I am acting more shy around her than I would around other girls. NOT GOOD!! And falling in love with her is perhaps not the right choice of words; I like her a lot though and we have a lot in common (she is my type physically and she has a nice personality). Now I wish I would have gone over to her car and just kissed her like an assertive man.

I really hope that we meet up at her house; that would definitely give me an opportunity to take things further.

Any other advice that you have to offer?

E-mail me. I will give you a book that will teach you to stop becoming so beta. It hurts me to know when a man isn't acting like a man when he should be. This will help you a lot.

You know how you have to act, there is no further advice I can give you besides pick your balls up and do it. Just do what you want to do, who gives a shit.

Hey man. I've been busy, but you've been in good hands. Netsky rules.

There have been these studies, where two groups of people are shown a series of the same image, which is first so blurry you can't recognize it, and slowly it becomes more in focus. With one group, the series is shorter -- let's say five pictures. With group two, it's longer -- ten. Group one identifies the picture long before group two. The conclusion is, more information is worse for knowledge.

That said, with just a scan of your updates since I was last here, I think this is a lost cause. She's not into you, and you're not hearing us. (I ain't mad atcha'.)

But I mention the above study because my hope is, whenever you're eventually past this, you'll come back to this thread. You'll learn what //not// to do. I think it will be so clear to you, you won't need to read the whole thing. It will probably even be painful, the more you read.

Hopefully this takes some sting off for you: three weeks ago I met an awesome girl. We had incredible sex the first night and spent the next three days together. Holding hands. She was saying things like, "I love this" and "See you tonight" and "Can't wait to do it again." She had red hair and glasses and I really liked her.

And then she lost interest.

It happens. Shit is fragile in the beginning. Which is why we must be anti-fragile.