Ok, so I'm trying to fight my inner AFC which is telling me to just go ahead and send her a second text tomorrow evening saying:

"Hey I'm in town through Saturday, I don't know what your plans ended up being but me and my friends are trying to make plans(not true) and I need to know soon. I just wanted to get to know you more in person since I can't really get to know you through texts, I don't bite and I'm not a serial killer I promise "

OR

How about a role play:

Me: could you help me out with this situation?
her: yeah what is it?
Me: well I'm talking to my friend (some girl's name) and she's giving me mixed messages and Im not sure if I really like her.
ect ect ect.

Could work her jealousy strings. Do you think she'd see right through that?
The trick is, I don't know if she's shy and looking for that kind of validation or if she is just pulling my string.

However this would be the second time in the past week where I would have texted her twice in a row.

Is that actually a good text to send? Or should I just call her despite her saying earlier last week she prefers texting?

Cmon guys help me out please. I'm at a loss here.

Point of such an opener is that ur next msg is about someyhing else. U should expect nothing from her and every big of investment she gives, is a bonus. Its a game man, game her :p.


If u dont know what to send, just call her up.

Nah I think I'm done, Its been almost 24 hours yet again. It's her turn. She has yet to text me twice in a row, or get back to me about meeting up. So I guess she's not interested. Time to move on guys? Am I missing something by her behavior? This is the first case I've had a girl show a lot of IOI's and become completely not interested in 1 day or just send IOI's while not being interested. It's confusing. Maybe she was just being nice and wanted a pen pal?

Whatever, I'm done chasing her until she gives a little back.

Ok wtf I put "finally free, for the time being" as my facebook status since I finished midterms and she just liked my status. I haven't heard from her in 26 hours.

I guess I should still do a freeze out?

Well in the end, the control of the relationship rests with the male, it's kind of bad if the situation is getting a bit aimless and you're sitting there wondering when she's going to do something about it when it should be you.

Take the "like" as a hint, call her up, work out a time when you're both free, and have a date.