Can you give me a specific example? I'm such an amateur! What would be a cool photo or something chill? And also how to take it from there? What would her possible responses be, and how would I respond and escalate things?

Can you give me a specific example? I'm such an amateur! What would be a cool photo or something chill? And also how to take it from there? What would her possible responses be, and how would I respond and escalate things?

Also, hypothetically, if she says happy new year or something, how should I respond?

Send this,

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this is great!

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I've used it a lot! Works great.

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Dude, you've had sex with this woman multiple times. Calm down and remember this. Most new posters here are doing what you're doing without even kissing the girl, lol.

I once fucked a girl (dominated her for her first time). She said she hated me for it, and for how fast I seduced her in text a week later, so I didn't contact her again. Two months later I get this (she realized I was just being a dominant male and she had a few dates with weaker men, over time revealing what she preferred):

Her: Merry Christmas Arch!
Me: Merry Christmas to you, too.

Nothing more. Normally I'd invited her over here, but i wanted her to think about her mistake a bit.

A week after that, I send a text inviting her over to my place. No bullshit chit chat. "Hey, just moved into my new place, you're welcome to join me for Netflix". She says "raincheck". I respond "cool". No more texts than that.

A week later she texts me at noon, asking if I like to take photos. I say I do. She sends me a partial nude in a forest. I tell her I do portraits. She asks what I'm doing says she's "available to hang out this afternoon". I tell her I'm working until 8pm. She says "that's too bad, I have other plans for the night". I say "cool". Then she texts me at 8:10 pm, saying "my plans changed, I'm free tonight".

I laugh, invite her over, and make a move five minutes in. The tv does not get turned on. She has been my girlfriend for the last year. She's gorgeous, 21, and lets me fuck other girls with her.

My point is, you have to outwait and outwit women. Minimal texting at the beginning allows for mystery and to tease a girl. Our interaction was foreplay. This girl blew me off, and I made her earn her way back by fucking with her a bit.

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Man I feel much better after reading this. And I feel embarrassed for myself. I don't know when I turned into this weak pussy.

That's my number 1 issue. I've always had sex on second dates. I'm actually pretty good at that. No 10s or 9s though. But 6, 7s mostly. However after sex I turn into this soft and disgusting needy thing initially to show the girls I'm not a douchebag. That always backfires!

Anyway, I'm sure I can wait and not contact this woman, and based on your example I get the idea how to act if she contacts me.

Just one more thing: can you give me some examples of how to contact after a month if she doesn't contact? Openers or any of those funny and chill things you mentioned earlier? I want to remain cool and avoid any awkward situation.

I jump into awkward like a warm pool on a sunny day.

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Yep. Embrace awkwardness. Highlight it. Embrace shocking honesty. There is nothing to fear. We live on a fucking floating rock in the middle of an endless void. Perspective, bro.

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Maybe I'm slow, but I don't get it. How can I attract her while being awkward and especially honest? If I want to be honest I would have to text her and tell her how much I miss her. But I don't want to fuck things up further by this needy behavior. Can you explain what you mean by embracing awkwardness and shocking honesty?

Can you elaborate?

Can someone please give me some examples of a "funny" or "chill" thing to send her after a month if she doesn't contact me?
I didn't think that "boob" thing was serious advice. Or is it??

"Feelings" do not fall into the "use honesty" approach.


Instead of texting nice guy bullshit like this:

You: Hey, Sarah, I had a great time the other day. Are you over your cold yet? I sure hope so. Colds suck! Would you want to hang out when you feel better maybe?

That's how most guy's texts look.

Shocking Honesty Man texts this out of the blue:

"Let's fuck."

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It is

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Yeah, I get that. That probably works on someone you haven't turned off by being needy as fuck.

I don't think I can wait a month and then text her "let's fuck" or anything like that.

I'm looking for something that applies to my situation.