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PostPosted: Wed Jul 11, 2012 6:21 pm 
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Update: Just met her at out town square. She was waiting already (i was 10 minutes late), sitting at the water fountain with her dog and at first almost complained about me being late. "Three minutes later and would have gone" Told her that I still had to do something - she aswell - and went to three different locations. Then we went for a walk with her dog through some park nearby. Chit chat all over the place - here and there some smiles of her. 
After that I suggested to grab some coffee but it was already 5:30pm and shops were about to close and she made the offer to go to her place instead, which we did. Me in my car (she told me directions) and she walked with her dog. I was faster and then walked the way back to her.

As she was making me some coffee I went around (Her: Go ahead and take a look!) trying to find some topics of her liking but none I could hopd a conersation about. She's into this whole sprituality, chacra, alternative medicine thingy I have no idea about. Stumbled along some topics and didn't feel comfortable at her kitchen table - and she noticed it - and after a while we went to the living room where things went better. Her on the sofa, me on an armchair - Small table
In between (total distance was like 6 feet). I Played with her dog, we told each other some fun stories but over all it was kinda hard to keep a conversation but had some high points here and there. Mostly with topics I like to talk about. I analyzed
Her handwriting and did The Cube - she was quite impressed but nothing more.
 
We only had about 2 hours total (she had to go to work again) and as I was taking my coffee mug to the kitchen while leaving, she was in search for my car outside the window. I took her by her shoulders and moved her in a playful way into the direction where my car was standing - some nice comment about it but that was all the touching there was.
As I was leaving she told me about her relationship with her phone (dislikes texting) and I left wished each other goodbye and I left her place. No hugging no nothing - didn't seem right.

Now I'm feeling kind of "Meh, could've been worse" but I know that she's a very down-to-earth, calm and relaxed kind of person similar
to me -> Real LTR material
BUT: I am settimg myself up for LJBF ever more.

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So, I think she totally friendzoned me. Here's why:

Last weekend I was having a DVD-evening with one of my female friends. My HB used to know her some time ago. Two days before I asked her via text whether she would wike to tag along:

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Her: Thanks a lot for your proposal. But I'm already at a friend's place who just gave birth to her baby.
Me: Wow, now that's a reason :D Have fun with the little 'rascal'. Well, then I'm about to have [Our mutual friend] just for myself ;-)
Her: Don't to anything naughty with [her name]. She's such a nice and lovely person ;-) Have a nice weekend.
Me: Well I couldn't tell you that one! Otherwise you just might just 'squeal' it to her.

No response from her.
I called her the evening after and she told me she didn't get it, I explained it in a C&F way but the whole tie she was really emotionally distant - like keeping me at arm's lengh.
Kinda strange - maybe I'm interpreting too much into it.

I ended the convo with a "see you around" and nothing else.

Any game-plan from you guys?

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You're on a track. You've had some personal experiences with her now and she will unconsciously be feeling this. You'll have spent close to over 7 hours with her, things start getting dangerous in the LJBF zone here, based on the little kino you've done.

Based on what you've said, my feedback is that your txting and phone game personality is not synchronizing quite as well with what you are displaying in person. Girls are naturally so more intuitive than us and she WILL pick up on this

It doesn't matter what she's into, chakra's / elvis presley / bubblegum. All girls respond to an alpha-male / caveman. They also all respond to natural attraction. She didn't invite you around to her house because she's seeing if she likes you. She fucking likes you bro, time to take the reigns.

You gotta keep the CF up with your phone game at this stage, we both know that. The plan forward, however.

For christ sake, promise me next time you're at her house, spike attraction with DHV's, give IOI's after you get IOI's and then start kino!! You're at her house so you're well into comfort. You'll have to start the attraction process again I think, but it will be quicker.

Remember after she starts qualifying herself to you (because she's attracted) when you reciprocate IOI's ALWAYS remember to roll off.

for eg, "So if you could be anything in the world without one chance of failure what would you be?"

"An Artist"

"Omg an Artist, no fucking way.. I love art!"
*Rolloff beings
"I can't talk to you now"
*Turn away or give a brief IOD
*Let her re-initiate

She will, but if she doesn't this is a passive IOI (Don't make the amateur mistake of thinking this is an IOD)

If you're not vibing at her house yet, take her out. Move her from location to location, this is going to help upload more DHV and increase her attraction for you.

Plan forward: txt her about social situations/events that remind you of her, push for the next date within 2-3 txts.
My advice would be don't call, txt. It's too full-on for a girl you haven't at least kino'd yet.

GL son. Well done on the progress so far, think you might get this if you do it right. :D


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