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I'm not thinking about her or kicking myself cause I think I did fine. I do think its important to figure out what went wrong as often as possible.
It's good to forget the girl but its not good to forget the situation, at least not till youv learned from it. Say your playing a sport, for this example we will use golf. Your swinging and you keep hittin the ball but its slicing terribly. Some people will think to much about how terrible they're doing and live in shame, some will completely forget there last swing and continue making the mistake for a period of time, and some will realize they're doing something wrong and work to correct it for the next swing.
So with this girl I don't wanna live in the past and imagine what coulda been, I wanna take steps to correct it for the next girl, always gott improve and the best way is to learn from.experience
You haven't messed up yet, there's no major mistake to learn from. Just meet some other girls. I can tell you haven't, because you still care about this one.
When I told you to stop thinking about her until you got 2 more numbers, I meant it. Every post in this thread since then is evidence that you have been thinking about her. Stop doing that until you have 2 numbers.