A girl I've known for a couple of years now and who is currently in a (long term? 1year) relationship kinda likes me and I like her too (but I'm currently seeing a couple of girls that I like), I tried to kiss her once while we we're both drunk and she pulled away saying she would really like to kiss me but she doesn't want to cheat on her boyfriend. She also told her boyfriend I tried to kiss her but that I was drunk.

Anyway, we occasionally still chat and last week she asked me if she could come over and watch Game of Thrones with me, she would also bring some cake she made.

So there we are watching GoT in my bed and eating cake, as soon at it ends we start 'touching' eachother a bit. Spooning, holding hands, touching eachother's ass etc, asking for massages etc. Eventually she aks if she can lay her head on my chest while I'm holding her, and she kinda starts sleeping on my chest facing my head, all I had to do was lean forward a little bit to kiss her but I didn't. I asked her what she would do if I tried to kiss her and she said she would pull away. So besides touching eachother I didn't try anything more.

We agreed we would watch the next episode of GoT together aswell and the last couple of days she's been texting me saying her boyfriend has to study a lot next month and she isn't allowed to see him while he studies. She said it wouldn't really matter if we kissed since she won't see him for over a month and she kinda asked me if I would try to kiss her next time we watch GoT together.


Could someone tell me what the fuck is going on here? I'd like to try and kiss her but her boyfriend knows she's watching GoT with me and I'm not sure how their relationship is, if it's good I don't wanna fuck it up by making her cheat but then again if it was a healthy relationship she wouldn't be flirting with me so much?


She did tell me she has a bit of a crush on me and if she were ever to break up with her boyfriend I'd be the first guy she would call.

I always wonder why in a guys' head is it ever a good idea to ask "what would you do if I kissed you?"

Seriously, fucks sake. I'm lying though. I know exactly why you did it. And that's because you were too afraid to go for the kiss and thought asking for permission would make it easier.

I can guarantee you, had you actually tried to kiss her instead of talking about it, you would have succeeded.

She likes you. You fucked up in expressing your sexual interest in her but at least you expressed some sexual interest. So on that, she knows that being alone with you will lead to some sort of intimacy. Hence, she sees you as a sexual option.
Furthermore, SHE asks YOU if she can come over. Then, when you're too much of a female to make a move, she encourages you further by giving you some story that her bf is studying blah blah blah.
Settle down, lill' Casanova. We don't make girls cheat. If their relationship were good, she wouldn't invite herself over to your place to literally netflix and chill. Don't start assuming responsibility for HER actions.

That being said, have her over, buy some wine, watch your GoT while having a drink, and escalate. Touch her, cuddle, kiss. And most importantly, start DOING and stop TALKING about doing.

Also, come back with updates.

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Well I did try to kiss her on 2 separate occasions before, both without success. That's why I'm hesitant to try again. Although we weren't alone then.

Anyway gonna check next episode on monday at her place this time, guess I'll just go for it then