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I hate online dating. I've tried it a few times and no matter how good the conversation seems to be going, it always ends up with the girls suddenly giving me flaky responses and vanishing when I try to arrange a meet up. Do you have a structure to follow when online dating? Like for how long to you text before arranging a meet up without spooking her away too soon. Or what do you talk about? I will try using the time-frame that you mentioned and see if it works better. Also, I think it might be that I suck at text game. Can you recommend a good book or article that covers this?
Since the numbers game is ruthless, it's not really about connections from what I can tell, but a plethOra of options. If they are serious about meeting I do within same day. I get the number set logistics and schedule the meet, no text buddy bullshit. Being direct and fast is the best luck I've had. I average 2 lays per week. Scheduling a day 2 here for the following day is next to impossible. They choose, no matter how hard you try. It's all about availability. I've got 3 dates on a Sunday from pof once starting at 5pm all on same evening. If you don't fuck her you will never see her again.
Getting the number is often a lost cause sometimes, but here's a really neat trick..if you have the number of a girl and you want to do a meet same night, check to see if she is online via tinder or pof or whatever and then text or call her immediately because she has phone in hand and looking for plans. It's not even game bro it's literally timing and being straight to the point. I'm in an area with 1mil ppl so just figure that 1 in 10 guys has this girls number and that could be from just ONE dating app alone, Nevermind facebook and real life friends etc. You must make your dick available or someone else will. I've had booty calls in my house and literally within 30 seconds of them being in my place, their phone is EXPLODING with texts and calls from suitors.
Edit: I have no text game. We all know that looks only matter in online dating so get as many numbers as possible