Hey PUAs,

At NYE, i met a girl, who I later texted a lot with. She seemed VERY attracted, and we ended up on a date. The thing is, I wasn't sure if I wanted to be her friend, or her boyfriend (why is a different story), so I didn't actually make a move on that date, and i think I might've blown it.
My wingman and I decided a while back that I would go for her, and so here I am, trying to make up for my lack of escalation on that date, even though I had the IOIs.
I need to regain her attraction towards me, and I'm thinking something in the lines of a jealousy plotline, but I'm not sure how to do it without it being too over the top, or outright mean. Basically, I would very much like a couple of pointers.

- Andreas

It's always good to know what you want beforehand so you can act accordingly. If you don't escalate with her, she may think you are not attracted to her or are not confident enough to make a move. Neither is good. More information about how the date went and ended would be good to give more accurate feedback.

Based on the information that I know, there are a couple ways you can approach. You can invite her out on another date and escalate with her then or you can invite her out to a social gathering where you are gaming other girls to build preselection and spark the attraction with her again. This time you need to escalate and go for the full close based on logistics.

Ironically, in the latter solution, you may find a more attractive girl in the social setting and want to close her instead, especially if logistics are better. If that's the case, you can close the new girl first and then try to close your original girl later or another time (or maybe threesome?). Whatever you want to do. There are so many other girls out there anyway. Develop an abundance mentality and she'll be attracted to you naturally and you will have a better lifestyle.

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