Hi guys,

I've got this stop moment with one awesome girl. Let me tell you progress so far...

First date:
We went to "tea room" or how to call this type of club in english... it's place where you can drink great tea, smoke hookah and stuff. Everything went great, we had really good connection, sat and talked there for like 5 hours. Maybe kino was little low, but great date. Unfortunately because the low kino and also because her need to run quickly I wasn!t able to end the night with kiss.

The almost date:
At the first date she mentioned she needs help with her project for kids next day. Maybe it was mistake, but i agreed to help her. We had great 2 hours and in the end, i asked her if she wants to go somewhere next week. She replied that she has boyfriend, but also that she really likes me and right now she's confused and needs time to think.

Second date:
Happened about week after the 1st date. I just wrote her if she wants to go out and she (without hesitation) said yes. We went to small, quite caffe. At this date, there was deffinitely some good rapport, little bit more kino and a LOT signs of interest (body language - curling hair, touching lips, looking at mouth, deep stares into each others eyes and stuff) and lot of ligh flirting. After 3 hours we went out, where I tried to kiss her. It really looked great (I was almost 100% sure she is into me), but she stopped the kiss and announced, that she has a boyfriend (obviously), that she really likes me, but can't go forward with our relationship.

Ofc. in both dates she never mentioned her boyfriend in any conversation (just once in the end of almost date)

What is the best way to win her? I don't think she really likes her boyfriend that much, she's propably the "never single" type of girl.

Thanks for your suggestions

There is a type of girl that likes the feeling of being desired once in a while.

She is emotionally using you in my opinion. She knows you want more but she still chooses to lead you on.

The only thing you can do is cut her off and chase other girls. If she ever comes single again, she might send you a text. But girls like this are red flags and I would only only keep it casual if it came to that.

I would really pursue other options. She wil suggest to be friends but this isn't a friendship dynamic. I have met many of this type of girls. They even become single and they end up with a new BF a week later

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Like Dragula, this happened to me several times already. However, all of them tell me they have a boyfriend at the moment when I have already isolated them and am sucking on their nipples or clit.

The bottom line is: You should sarge more girls and when you encounter the same situation again...

All I can say is that aside from being more aggressive in your escalation, you need to fix your vibe. You have to get into a sexual state and dress sexier. Hint: Accentuate your crotch. Just be subtle about it and act like you didn't notice when she keeps on looking at your cock. Once you get those covert gazes at your in betweens, isolate.

Try something like this:

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

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