Just relocated to Vegas where I have started taking classes at a new school. There is this blonde chick maybe a 7 or so not that hot but definitely tempting in one of my classes. Before today I couldn't get any action out of this chick. We would talk from time to time in class but when it came to texting her she would ignore the shit out of me. So I immediately started ignoring her because I hate when chicks fuckin act like that. Example: One day we had a test coming up... So I texted her something like, "Popquiz, let me see how ready you are for that test." She totally ignored it. So then I texted her with something like "ooookkk forget my Popquiz then." (with the weird side eyes). Still trying to get a grasp on why chicks do this. Although she did express one day after class that she saw my text and had a busy week and she offered to take me up on meeting me at Starbucks.

Anyways, this chick texted me out of the blue yesterday asking me shit about class. So I figured that she wanted to talk now for some odd reason, I don't know maybe she felt sorry for me. Today, she started to reply to my text messages back to back. We had a little chat via text message then scheduled to meet Monday at around 2ish.

Then today I met this Super hot chick HB certified 10. I'm sure this chick has guys throwing their best game at her and money, plus I'm sure she has top picks of any of the guys on campus. I was able to number close this chick today. We texted for a few, as a result of our texting she also called out Monday before 5pm as a time we could meet up. Might I also add that this chick and I had a very in-depth conversation about anti-abortion and being pro-life. Why because she works for an organization that supports this on campus. Now the only reason why I think this chick wants to meet me is to discuss this more. I hope she's not trying to sell me into joining the organization but I know that was her objective for being out there. Plus I'm sure that I can read up a little bit about this stuff and show mastery of her world. Which I'm hoping leads to an intimate situation where I get to explore her body and mind sexual. I think this would be a great experience. The spot we are going to meet is a Starbucks located directly across from campus and we happen to be meeting following one of her classes. I'm hoping this chick doesn't pull some bullshit like bring a friend from class or she has a boyfriend who trickles in with her.

Both of these chicks are the type of chicks that I'm sure think they are too good for me. Is there any meaning when a girl plans to meet with you on a Monday during the day? I remember a guy on the forums telling me to never meet a girl before 5pm to always meet after 7pm. Also the chick I mentioned meeting today (pro-life chick) she said she would be out of town this coming Monday, but pushed our meeting out to next Monday the 14th. Any thoughts on how I should play my cards on these or about the whole Monday before 5pm thing.

It sounds possibly like more formal arrangements than pure dates. I.e. girl 1 is meeting about the class it seems like, and girl 2 it sounds like is meeting possibly to try to recruit you in to some organization.

As far as meeting during the day, yes it's better to meet at night but on a standard daytime date, don't do anything to make it more formal just because it's during the day.

If you're all about having a laid back vibe and it is clear (shown w/ class) that your intent is not to have milk & cookies with women, they know intuitively what you're all about. So as long as you are displaying that kind of demeanor then you're all good.

But if you're not having the vibe described in the previous paragraph and you show up to a meet up with said vibe, the girl will rightly be confused as hell. For instance it sounds like you may have developed a friend vibe with girl 1.

If i were u, i would just meet these two girls and see where it leads.

So your saying if I come with the vibe that we're just meeting up for a nice conversation over coffee that would show them what I'm all about? What do you mean by my "intent is not to have milk and cookies?" Kind of confused on the above statement.

What you are saying is these two meet ups have no attraction value on the girls end, the attraction part of it is all in my head... Right? So basically I shouldn't expect anything out of the meet up. Here is an update girl 1 has not texted me back to confirm the times. She seems kind of flaky, so girl 1 I wouldn't say is meeting me for the class per say. When I initially asked if we could meet up I told her that maybe we should meet up to get an know each other a little more. I just told her I would love to take her out for over coffee or something.

I'm stating to come with the vibe that you're a man in demand; the milk and cookies thing was to say that you need to be subcommunicating sexual intent in a classy way, and not a friends vibe. This general demeanor should be a part of your persona if your goal is to meet and attract multiple women. If a person was to show up on a date with this vibe after having a friends vibe up until that point, the girl would rightly be confused out of her mind.

I don't know enough about the interactions to know whether they have attraction value - it was only a hunch - hence a suggestion to meet with them and see how things go. If girl 1 is flaky, oh well. Just go meet more girls.

You're doing a really good job for being out there and putting yourself out there to meet women. Keep doing it and you will find success.

Keep coming back here for ideas and pointers and you will progress.

The guys here are happy to help a guy who is actually out there trying to figure this stuff out and not stuck on trying to get that one "dream girl."

Communicating sexual intent in a classy way is exactly what I plan to do! After reading your response I'm under the impression that it's a date only in my mind and for the girl its like they are just meeting a guy who they don't know how to say no to.