I've been seeing this girl for about three years off and on. She's super nice and always pays for things but she wants me and probably thinks we're dating. Or not I don't know for sure. But ultimately she's a beta female and she's too nice. It kind of throws me off my game. When I don't talk to her for a week and I think maybe she's moved on I get a better vibe about myself and girls definitely notice my vibe more too. Should I drop her or how can I reconcile her beta vibe with my alpha vibe? The sex is good and she's really a good friend but I want to get out there and be successful with other girls. I don't want her vibe to kill my charm.