I met this girl 1-2 years ago, over this course - I got to know her very well. She's a smaller girl with medium length hair and carries very enthralling psychical body language when she moves. I've been around her and her friends and it seems she acts this way around me only, although I may be wrong.

Let me tell you my experience with this girl today.

I had recently been reading a PUA book out of interest the past 3 days. I got a call from this girl, let's call her "Jacinta". Yes! I thought, time to practice my game. I hadn't talked to her for months but I always had a thing for her. She was calling me nonstop yesterday to see if she could come over. I replied hours later with "Sorry I've had work to do and haven't had my phone on me. Tomorrow sounds good."

Today, she's calling me nonstop and I chose not to answer, I implemented some cat-string theory. I finally replied, "Had some stuff to do. Sounds good". She replies, "Ok I'll walk up there make sure your up!". I reply "I probably won't be." Again some cat-string theory. She says "I'll be there in 20 minutes leave door unlocked."

So I decide to try some peacock theory. Wore my most colourful shirt, fixed my hair, put some cologne on, put on a ring. I thought this should be enough. I was reading until she came over. I heard her knock very loudly. I waited to answer the door and finally gave in with my heart pounding for no good reason - and opened the door.

I gave her a big smile and she came and gave me a hug and said she missed me and all that jazz. I had no problems holding a conversation with her and never have encountered that problem.

My clothes definitely worked and we're a talking point. She loved my shirt.


The problem I'm encountering is, she has a boyfriend. I know this is very common for a seasoned or even an amateur PUA.

Now, over the course of an hour an a half I picked up on atleast 3 IOI's, probably more.

We joked, we laughed, we played games and we laid together side by side on my bed. We tickled each other and play fought for 10-15 minutes at different occasions. I found out she was ticklish behind her knees and used this as an excuse to touch her legs. For me it became sexual as she was wrapped up in my arms laughing and giggling while I stroked her legs and the like. It was funny. I ran my fingers through her hair and held her hands, legs, arms and body. Great stuff.

I would pretend to be falling asleep and the tickling would begin again. I would ignore her and she would try and earn my attention. This wasn't difficult.

I was showing her things on my computer and keyboard, I asked her to hop off my computer chair at one stage and was going to ask her to sit on my lap. I chickened out. I wasn't sure if I should ask her to leave during our hangout or let her leave when she had to go. I chose the second option. I was loving it too much.

Anyway cutting to the chase, we've been friends for 1-2 years and I've always had sexual thoughts about her. Whenever we hangout there's always this sort of thing going on. Teasing, joking, tickling, laughing and all round good times. I just want to fuck her. We talk on sex related topics a lot and she talks about the guys she's been with etc. I just need a good method on how to approach sex with her.

In essence I need a strategy. I am trying to gain as much knowledge as I can to become a PUA.

Thanks in advance,
Opals

UGHHHHHHH

The indirect PUA guys got you.

They brainwashed you into being hesitant and SLOW. You definitely could have fucked her right then and there.

Cat-string theory? It helped, but you wasted time by overdoing it.
And you risked blowing it by overdoing it, too.
Peacocking? Seriously? Come on. I can't blame you for not knowing any better but... yeah that's a waste of time, too. You would have gotten the same "IOIs" even without it.

What you need to focus on is kino escalation and being bold enough to CLOSE THE DEAL when you even begin to think that it might be a good idea.

Also, this reminds me a lot of a field report I wrote many years ago:
fr-the-magic-touch-vt24420.html

The moral of the story: Don't let the fact that she has a boyfriend distract you from the glaringly obvious signs that SHE WANTS TO FUCK YOU.

It seems like you've been reading up on outdated material from literally 10 years ago. There's a lot better stuff out there these days.

I don't want to sound like Chief's biggest fan, but you should listen to him - always gives pretty good advice, everything from how to put on cologne, to this.

2 things though:

1. Indirect is sometimes the right way to go, I've found. Direct should be your primary style, with the ability to recognise when indirect is a better approach.

2. Peacocking, is mostly pathetic... but it's ok if you're with a group of friends all dressed as cowboys or something stupid - it will work for you in those kinds of situations, don't be that guy out on his own dressed as a cowboy though. Also if you dress a little weird cause it's who you are, go for it, own it, rock it.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Thankyou all for your responses, I appreciate it a lot.

I am going to invite her over when I get a break from work, will let you know how it all goes.

She probably would've. And more. Live and learn.

Amen to that.