Hey guys,
I have been sarging this girl from work the past couple of weeks (she only has one more week before moving on to study) and she has a boyfriend. I worked her pretty well last Friday when we were attending a Christmas party, but didn't get the kiss close. We have been doing some small kino at work, fun talk, intense eye contact, messing around. The day after the Christmas party we established a text conversation (via facebook messenger), where she added me as a friend. (Does this matter, who adds whom on facebook?

) We have been keeping this texting almost daily, where I tried an SMT for the first time, which, to my amusement, worked pretty well. Can't really remember what SMT I used, but credits to "CharmingRogue" for those three he provided. It ended up something along the lines:
Me: bla bla when are you gonna marry your BF? Must feel nice having somebody that'll do everything and anything for you, no matter the cost blabla.
Her: His parents wants us to get married ASAP, but I won't marry in a very long time, unless it's with you?
(we've made a deal, that if we are both single when we're 40, we would marry each other).
She put this out quite late, after I've been using a few SMT's. Her last line really made me realize, that she might actually cheat on her BF? We have been exchanging a lot of sexual text's and very intimate ones (in my opinion).
Yesterday (friday) at work, I asked her to touch my hand. She ended up holding it for a good 10 secs or so, where she then asked if I was going out Saturday night, because she is going to see some artist perform.
I then said:
"Nah, I'm not quite sure if I'm in the mood, I might just end up meeting you

"
She: YEAH! That's exactly the point!
It feels to me that I've build a quite solid connection to this girl, so I'm planning on going out tonight, but what's my plan? Her BF might be out with her, and haven't really handled a BF before. It feels like I could get a kiss close based on the texting we've done during the past week.
What do you guys reckon I do, any subtle magic words, or should I just go and meet her and take it from there? (perhaps including BF?)
Keep it sweet!