I do not like going to coffee shops/bars or restaurants and stare at each other's faces whole time because I run out of things to talk about and usually it goes in negative direction where she either complains about her family or co-workers and whole date ends up being in a bad taste.

I'd much rather have something to do during the date. Last week I took a girl to xmas tree lighting and skating in mall. We didn't get to know each other much but it was fun. No kino. She said 'sure you have my no. text me' when asked for a 2nd date.

I have to find something fun to do again this weekend and its exhausting. Can you guys help me here?
(Can't invite her back to my place. It's not ready yet.)

Catch a good local band, go walk the mall, I live by LSU campus in Louisiana so I'll bring a girl up there to see Mike the tiger and walk the campus, lots of cool stuff around.

Where do you live

I tell guys this all the time, the key to going on dates is to make sure you never stay in the same environment for more than an hour

Another thing that is very powerful is called the dating matrix

It’s basically a way to make a girl feel like she knows you extremely well, even if you’ve only been on 2 dates with her.

The way you do this is you need to focus on two aspects: Night/day & Alone/Active

This is to say, if your first date with this girl was at night time, then the next time you go out with her, make sure the date is during the day.

Same thing applies to Alone/Active. If your first date with her was just the two of you, make sure that your next date is with lots of your friends or other people around.

If you do this properly, you can literally make a girl fall in love with you after two dates, as long as you make the dates fun and playful.

So if you met a girl at night in a club with a bunch of people around, the next time you go on a date with her, take her to lunch during the day where it’s just the two of you.

Try it out!

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Hey man

What on earth do you mean "I have to find something fun and it's exhausting".
Dates are meant to be fun. It's a way for you to bring her into your world, for her to experience you!

Is she experiencing me?

... Or can it be anybody else? Ask yourself this. What makes you unique and how is she getting to feel that?
I took out this brunette stunner on a suuuuper fancy date. Wanna hear it? She came to pick me up, we drove downtown, she paid for parking. I was out of a specific type of jasmine green tea (I don't function without my tea) so we went to China town to pick it up. We walked around a bit then went back to my place. We sat on my bed and smoked Shisha while drinking my tea.

Fuck dates.

Seriously. What a waste of time. It's awkward, it's weird, you don't quite know where your hands go...
Stop doing that shit and start living. If you're exhausted living your life, then there's a problem. If you feel you have to find something fun to do, then there's a problem.

Discover your passions and then invite her along.

Love
Mack

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The previous poster is right. What are my best dates like? The girl I met for 5 minutes in "the field" comes over and we chill, shoot the shit and make out etc if we feel like it.

Let loose, drop formalities and live.