Yea case is: we kissed few nights ago. Now we text back and forward with some teasing and flirting and I told her that I'll tell "it" to her ("it" being an answer to a question) only if she gives me a massage.

Then she texts me: "the night when we kissed you were very touchy with those hand of yours, which made me kind of feel unease at this point. Change your approach and then u'll have your massage..."

In other words seems like I'm too fast kino escalating and she feel uncomfortable with it. At least I see it that way.

She is kind of a... nerdy girl. She didn't had many relationships (i suppose) and I double she had much sexual experience.


So am I wrong being too touchy ? Should I build more comfort or just be more patient ?

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I'd say she's sort of shit testing you.

If she didn't object while you were doing it, then you did it right.

I wouldn't change it up next time. Do what you did before... If she stops you or objects, then slow it down.

Yea me as well I think it was just a test.

next time when I date invite her i'll say something in the line of... "Hey lets go to XYZ tonight, just make sure not to jump on me like last time"

kind of moving the frame of reference in a c&f way...

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