Hey guys, just a simple question.

Met a girl at a party a couple of weeks ago and I took her mini golfing last Tuesday. We had a lot of fun, we kissed for a bit after outside of my car after golfing and kissed for a few minutes after dropping her off. I waited 3 days and called her today but she didn't pick up. I'm a tiny bit worried because she didn't tell me to call her afterwards and there was no contact during the 3 days from her.

I just want to know if it's something I should worry about or am I over thinking?
Also would like to know what my next course of action should be.

Any and all help is appreciated, thanks.

It all depends on what YOU want out of the interaction, do you want a girlfriend, a FWB or one-night stand.

If she is ready for what you are looking for, she will go with your flow.

If she is not ready, then find girls that are.

Remember, every second that you worry, spending time and your resources on girls that are not in agreement with your wants, needs, desires and life-style is a second wasted and that you could have spent with someone that deserves your attention and time.

Reach out to this girl one last time but if she doesn't reach back, it's time to fill that spot with someone who WANTS to be in it.

Last thought - don't try to find perfect girls, find girls that are perfect for YOU.

Update: after talking with my more experienced dating friends, I found out that she was dtf, but I failed to escalate properly. In addition, they said she probably felt a bit insulted by my act of waiting 3 days as well, can someone please tell me how I can correct this and get her on a second date?

Send her a text or call 1 more time. If no reply, next. Plenty of women out there, go meet some of them.

So you waited 3 fucking days to contact her after your date? Christ you morons on here are so fucking stupid. Haven't got a fucking clue what the fuck you are doing. To call her or text her 3 days later is a fucking insult you dumb, stupid cunt. I've said it before and I'll say it again. You play such pointless, stupid fucking mind games that you tie your dumb ass brains in knots and don't know whether you are coming or fucking going.

Oh please help me. Please help meeeeeeee! I had a really good date but played it so fucking cool that she's not fucking interested in me anymore. You dudes are the dumbest cunts to walk the earth. A good date and a follow up call the next day is all you had to do but you can't even fucking get THAT right. Asshole.

Loved Brad's little story as well. The only reason he got his 3 some was because they were all fucking drunk. Yeh dude. You're the man. Fucking pathetic. And you take your advice and spend all your cash on what that fucking dick tells you.

Oh shut up. Like you know the answers. I fucked a girl last week and called her the next night, and it seemed to kill the attraction. It's something we are all trying to get right, and after everything I've read, it seems there is no right answer to when you are supposed to call. Some girls will think you're desperate if you call the next day, others will be insulted if you don't. The only answer is to get better at reading her, and it's not always easy.

Anyway, I hope everyone does their best to meet this guys standards. You see how angry he gets when you don't score and want to know why, so you better get it 100% right like he has. Now thanks to the guru here, we all know how many days, so no excuses anymore. After kissing, you need to call the next day or she will ignore you. It's in every seduction guide in bold letters so no wonder he is so upset.

"NO MATTER WHAT LEVEL YOU ARE.. YOU WILL ALWAYS GET REJECTED" - http://www.puatraining.com/blog/just-go ... #more-6362

I don't understand how a woman can be insulted because a guy doesn't call her after a kiss/date/fuck/whatever. Why is it OUR job to call them? How about they call and thank us for showing them a good time? In my experience they don't call even if it went really well. Of course we can't always know if she will think we are desperate or sweet when we call the next day so a lot of times we wait and it blows up in our face. It makes absolutely no sense. I actually went on a first date with a girl and ended up spending the night with her. She said she would call me, a week passed, and then I get an SMS from her accusing me of being a pickup artist and not wanting to hear what I have to say. That was pathetic.

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