Hey fellas,

Been working a new co-worker (she only has a month left though) for a couple of weeks.
I'm not really working side-by-side with her, but I eat lunch with her everyday (and some other guys, which I can control). Though we text quite a lot after work and on weekends.

I just had the biggest flashback today. It was when I first texted a girl and felt proud about my message, and I mean really proud. It actually got me laid for the first time, before I was introduced to the game.

It went somehing like this;

ME: bla bla bla
Her: Try me!
ME: Some day/some time I'd like to try you


I feel like it could be used as a great gambit, but the only dilemma I have is;
How do I force that "try me!"?

I've been trying to think of many scenarios, but can't really lock one down.
I'm also Swedish so I try to think of scenarios in both languages!

Any help would be greatly appreciated,

-Chris

Firstly, I'd say don't game coworkers, but she's leaving soon so it's not a huge risk.

Your question is silly, how do you get her to say something you like so you can send some magical response that got you laid once? No offence but I find the question retarded.

Yeah, if she says something that leads in go for it but NEVER force an interaction. You can find innuendo and responses like these everywhere you just gotta be creative and look for key words.

Eg, girl I flirt with at a local cafe is making me a sandwich and suggests changing one of my condiments, "would you like me to take it off?" "Do you like people to tell you to take it off?" She went red and giggled, was gold.

My point, don't force an interaction, find innuendo in anything you like. Also, stop gaming over text, get her face to face one on one, escalate, flirt, close.

You can't force an outcome.

You can make calculated moves to increase your odds of success... but to say you want to force an outcome is kind of creepy.

As long as she is still actually employed where you are I wouldn't send that particular set of texts... As soon as she leaves, though - fair game.

You can always just stop by her desk or send her a text saying you're going for a coffee, want to join... or that you're grabbing a beer after work - and ask her to come....

This. The 'i'd like to try you' kind of text is not a sound idea with a co-worker. Get her out, let the chemistry take over, go back to your place, close.