So this girl and I have been talking for the past couple of months. I first met her back when I was in highschool, me of course being that awesome guy whose attention was always being demanded. (And I say was because being an at home student I don't go out every day like I used to) Anyways, so I was walking at the hallway at my church after the service had ended when to my right side I see this gorgeous girl with wavy brown hair, dark brown eyes, in a black dress that just left me , when I realize, Its THAT sporty girl from high school. This girl is a gymnast and a just good at any sport.. and shes a gymnast. Okay?
Soo I go a little out of my way enough so she notices I am there. Boom, we end up exchanging facebooks, so when I get home I message her that it was nice to see her there. We talked for a couple of months, teased and kept the momentum going for as long as I could, being hard for us to meet up becuse of her busier schedule making her flake a couple dates, except at church. So much for waiting so long....sigh, I lost interest and I froze her after a very nice chat. (Shh, I know what Im doing)

TLDR: Anyways, exactly one month after I froze her, I coincidentally bumped into her on her birthday. She was throwing IOI's all over, I love how they move their eyes. She ended up inviting me for dinner the next day she has available . So my question to you guys is: What would you do in this situation? (I havnt given her any gifts yet, but I'll sure be bringing her a thoughtful little one).

i can understand why your post lacks on replies....

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why?
I was trying to be swoozie

you should walk the walk and talk the talk.
escalate.
if she does not bite the bait move on to another girl.
Man up. be straight and direct to the point.
focus on the many

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You don't.

Don't bring her a goddamn gift.

I do.
I didn't.

So that's why you were asking what we'd do in this situation? A little too 'swoozie' maybe?
That's a plus... your previous statement indicated you'd "sure be bringing her a thoughtful little one". Congrats though - how'd it work out?

Yes, I agree there is too much swoozie in that post. And I wanted some ideas to think outside my own head.


It went pretty good, I considered the relationship was based on pure attraction, so I focused more on comfort and kino. Found out we have a lot in common, even good friends. But it was too soon for a gift. The time might come later. Took her to another place afterwards, then sent her home. So far just chatting up in fb, Im not rushing. The thing is Im not sure about it, for Id be her first bf.

really what is the problem here? girls pay me for the dates all the time. just go.

in fact some even offered me money just to go out with them.

Good job man, I'm not interested. And I also hope you really get to know the girls who pay so much for your presence. Otherwise you're missing out and missing the point. Its is not about getting as many hoes you can, it is about being a gentleman and giving them experiences to make them feel alive. Otherwise you're only hogging positive energy for yourself, making evidence you need it because you have a lack of it... Or it could be a temporal state of mind you had when you posted. To which I say, snap out of it ASAP because its not making you look good. Good luck.

that's just being retarded. be mr nice guy and put them in a pedestal and you'll never f close any. being a gentleman doesn't mean you have to act like an afc and pay for everything. women want equality and to be treated with respect. let it pay. pay next time. what's the issue really?!????

If you offer enough value she will gladdly pay for anything