I was in Vegas a few days for work, met a girl there one day, had sex within 3 hours after meeting. We got along well so I would've been interested in seeing her again but we didn't live near each other.

A few months later I ended up moving to Vegas for work. I bumped into her at the same club. She seemed excited to see me and gave me her number.

I texted her and we planned to meet up the next night. She ended up failing to text me back. I texted her the next day and she simply said she was busy with work. I assumed she lost interest for w/e reason so I left her alone after that.

I ended up bumping into her again at the club a week later. I was going to ignore her, but she initiated. She came up to me with a big smile on her face and apologized, said she was just overwhelmed with work but was free tonight. So we made plans to meet up that night. She failed to follow through again!!! She texted me the next morning just saying she fell asleep, nothing more.

I feel like both times if she was interested, she should've made an attempt to make it up to me like, "So sorry, let's meet today at 4." but she's left no sign of making it up to me. So I'm confused at how excited she seems to see me in person, yet how she fails to follow through.

I'm inclined to ask what her intentions are (maybe she likes being cruel or playing games) and note to her how she should make it up to me if she's really interested. What you think yo?

Hey bro,

I live in vegas (Hit me up if you're here). If she works for the club, it's very likely she was tired as shit after and did legitimately miss the date. Chicks in this town are flaky. The real reason she's hesitant to see you is because she's nervous about how quickly things happened and doesn't trust herself with you because there wasn't enough comfort after the emotions she felt during the escalation went away.

The SNL was a success, but the comfort after the lay is very important if you want to see her another time.

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