Hb 8 I # closed at a bar, we started texting and Immedietly hit it off. The text banter was really great and she even got to where she would stay up really late ( I work nights) so she could call.

So I get her out on a "date" logistics got messed up and we ended up with a third wheel ( a trusted wing) When I picked her up I had some serious trouble finding her place so we were like thirty minutes late. We went to a restaurant that I picked out but after paying a cover and sitting down the music was so unbearably loud I decided to venue change.

At some point between arriving at the new place, and leaving for the next venue something went wrong. I can't place any one thing, but there were some minor slip ups. On the way to the next venue (a bar we both like) I go to strike up a smoke and she loses it. She tells me she isn't going to walk with me if I'm smoking, because she is allergic.

At this point I can feel the whole thing slipping away, But bar scene is my specialty so I knew by pawning her into sets I could DHV as well as show Preselection. Well my wing was in set when we walked in so I came in. At this point I start the quadruple Hand test, which she shut down at first chance.

So She sees some of her sorority sisters I leave and don't see her the rest of the night. This all happened on saturday so Today I'm thinking about reopening (call it one-itus) today with a text. I wonder if I should go with something off topic and simple, or call out the bad night in a light playful way.

#1. Smoking is super unattractive. Kissing a smoker is like kissing an ashtray. Maybe she just doesn't like smokers.

#2. Why are you spending all of this time texting late at night with somebody you just met briefly and # closed? Your time is too valuable. It seems like you've put this girl on a pedestal. You meet a girl briefly, then text with her all night and take her to dinner?

I would suggest valuing yourself and your time a bit more. You are an incredible guy with a TON of value. If you meet a girl, text her a few times and then meet up. Your time is SUPER valuable. You can't waste it bantering back and forth via text.

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