Tried to set up a day 2 after a OK first date... There was kino, no k-close and she didnt even send me a thanks/follow up text after the date... so i got the vibe i f'd up... anyways,

Texted her 2 days later with some callback/inside joke referring to our date and she answered positively but when I asked her when she was free to meet up again she said "ummm probably next week"

I replied saying contact me when you figure out your schedule... from your guys experience is this a dead one?

Not necessarily. She responded to your text, she didn't even have to do that. Like you said, it went ok, and she probably feels the same way. Would you make a person you just had an "ok" time with a priority? If she really really liked you, she'd make time this week, but it seems there's a possibility she is down to hang out again. Do you want to hang out with a girl that you just had an "ok" time with?

Maybe she didnt text you back, because she may not have enjoyed the date

or maybe she just forgot...I mean getting her to go on A date one on one should

speak volumes of and within itself...



Unless you really did mess up on that date...but yeah I would just wait and see if

shes down to hang out again and see whats up with that...you dont have to kiss close

the girl everytime. Just be patient and let the vibe flow.

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Honestly we had fun. it wasnt awkward at all and a lot of joking around but since I didn't K-close i felt like I failed... She didn't give off too many IOIs or give off a signal to kiss her so i didnt force it...
This is the first time a girl never followed up with a thank you or something so i thought i f'd up...

And yes, I would like to see her again... She is a easy 9/10, smart and has her shit together, similar to me... our goals/values are aligned and all so we would be a good match relationship wise... there was chemistry i just couldnt really gauge her interest... though maybe i should have just forced a k-close and see her reaction... i thought the date went well enough to guarantee a second date (minus no k-close), but the date was dinner/bowling and was like 4 hours long so that probably was a bad idea? if i dont see her again i at least know now to make 1st dates something like drinks and not waste much time/money anymore

this girl is really high value, has tons of options and makes it pretty clear she isnt looking for anything casual so its throwing me off and makes me not be too aggressive... she also gives the vibe that she is playing hard to get but it could also mean low interest...

and she responded to my first text within an hour... she waited about a day to reply to the next text so she is either testing me or really has low interest... i left the ball on her court, if she doesnt contact me in a week or 2 i guess i can try one last time and then walk away... it sucks when you meet a really awesome girl and she is being difficult... i have a couple other girls chasing me hard so this one isnt bothering me too much but she is easily the best girl im dating SPAM

Yeah for future reference, the post-date thank you text means absolutely nothing. It has more to do with her sense of manners than what she thinks of you. If only they knew how annoying it is. I've had girls send that text and never talk to me again; I've had girls not send that text and want to marry me by the end of the next date. Yeah, it's nothing and I frankly wish they didn't do it unless they were interested. I will say that if they make any reference to seeing you again, or respond with a "me too" sort of comment to you saying the same, it's a good sign, but a lack of that doesn't mean anything.

Well from my experience when a girl texts me after the date I see them 90% of the time. When they don't, I see them 0% of the time... But I guess it goes both ways...

So this girl has yet to contact me and it has been a week... PRETTY sure this one is dead, but I at least didn't chase too much or anything... Note to self: cheap dates only...