I was on a second date with a HB8. The date itself went very well. My kino was all over her lower back and thighs. At one point, we were looking at something on the phone together and our cheeks are touching, so I thought she was tollay ready to be kissed. I then locked the eye contact and said I really want to kiss you. She said no and I asked why not? Then she said "not here" (We were in a pretty fancy bar). I then said "ok I understand." When we are separating for the night in front of the train station, I said. "so you can give me the kiss I should have had earlier". She said no again, but let me kissed both her cheeks before leaving.

It appears to me she is just playing hard to get, because I could feel she was totally turned on. She is 20 and still lives with her mum. Maybe she had some advice from her mum about not giving up the kiss on the second date. This was on Thursday and I havent contact her since, because I want to show some IOD as a little punishment, since I think I have given her too much sexual power.

The question is how I should go from here.

Firstly, how long should I keep the silence SPAM for?
Secondly, I need to gain the sexual power which have been lost, otherwise getting her to bed would be even more difficult. How could I do that?
Finally, What I should do for the next date? I am thinking I should take her out for lunch and maybe try to keep a bit distance and push her away from time to time to see how she reacts?

Thanks a lot for the help.

My advice us, for the next date, don't assume the afc role by asking why not like you're hurt. You should've used a kiss close routine like how good of a kisser so you think you are from 1 to 10, or would you like to kiss me?

The second one can be followed by oh, it looked like you had something in your mind if she politely declines.

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Location is a tricky one here I think, especially if you are both too sober. Train station and well lit bars aren't great for romance - too many people looking can make you both nervous. Try walking between bars, or before you get to the station. Landmarks are a good place to stop and chill for a bit.
Let us know how you get on.

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