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| Andro19 | PostPosted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 1:02 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Tue Nov 06, 2012 1:55 am Posts: 15 Location: Greenville SC | | So I was seeing this HB9/10, things started getting serious and she wanted to start dating and I didn't. Well after a few weeks, out of no where, she hits me with a text saying "I don't want a relationship right now
And I think we need to stop seeing each other." Quit talking pretty much after that.
Well after doing my yearly Merry Christmas to my entire phone book, she texted me back telling me
How she should have never ended things and asked to see
Me. Of course I fucked up and gave her the validation she was seeking way too easy. We set up a date for that following Thursday. She then texted me that next morning with "So I'm deffinetly blowing my second chance with you by saying this but.. There's a guy I have feelings for but it isn't gonna work out.. But after talking to you yesterday it realized that I need some time to get over that guy before I start something new. And I don't want to lead you on. I just need time to get over this guy before we start anything new. I'm sorry but do you get what I'm saying?"
I fucked it up further by trying to justify seeing me and that i missed her and all that bullshit. I know
I should have said "okay hope you don't mind me seeing other girls while you sort things out" or something along those lines but I let emotion take control and screwed that up. Made it sound like I'm okay with waiting on her.
My question is, what isy next move? Yes I'm seeing MANY other girls right now
Just would like to have some fun with this one again cause the sex was awesome. Thoughts?? _________________ Andro
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| oceanx | PostPosted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 8:09 am | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Nov 09, 2013 9:50 pm Posts: 2864 | | Possibly re-ping again maybe around Valentine's day; she will be primed for some companionship if she is still not seeing anyone.
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| osyn | PostPosted: Tue Dec 31, 2013 2:29 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Nov 09, 2013 3:54 pm Posts: 61 | | She sounds like she's either confused or leading you on or using you as a backup plan. Scale back your advances and see if she pursues you. If not, I'd cut my losses.
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