Really into this girl she's 27 I'm 24. Basically not sure what to do; not willing to screw this one up because she's just not another girl for me. First time I've been seriously into someone older than me so not sure how to play it. She's really traditional and all so typical pua routines won't cut it. I think based on our interactions that she's into me but want to make sure that she's not going to flake; we have a lot of mutual friends so If I do something and it's not reciprocated then it's only downside.

Just to give people context if it was just some pretty girl at a bar etc I wouldn't even hesitate but it's what you can term my "one-I-tis".

Anyway how should I play this?

Cheers

First 27 is not old. You are 24?? That's almost nothing.

Second, forget routines. Break rapport, qualify, repeat.

When she starts investing heavily in you, then you know it's ok to escalate.

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