Hi guys,

I need some advice so got number of Spanish HB 8 while out shopping, went on first date with her on Saturday, it when really well, constant makeout, jokes laughs...deep connection..in fact best date I have been on.

So as you can imagine I am now really keen to see her again; I have now just tried to ask her out via text for a day 3 but she is non responsive and I feel as though this is going down the toilet! This is my text log with her please tell me where i might i have gone wrong as I need to learn for the future:

Sunday 04:25 Her: (an hour after end of date as I asked her to text me when she got home)- "my bus was really quick Im at home now! In my waaarm bed haha I guess u are still on the bus ;P but being honest I'm really scared thinking about what u told me about ur mum hahahaha (this is an old house with lot of noises) I had a great time tonight thx for it!! good night joshito!!"

Me Sunday 05:30 "Haha yes I have only just got home now...very funny! See and that is exactly why you needed a fearless strong man to look after you tonight from the scary ghosts! Had a good time tonight as well! good night!"

Me Sunday 22:00 "Was just helping my youngest brother with his Spanish studies for school and i thought of you...."

Her Sunday 22:30 - "oh really? oh please don't teach him Spanish....after the things u said yesterday I don't know if it's a good idea.....hahahaha u know i'm sick today! It's ur fault ;P hahahaha "

Me Sunday 23:00 "haha my fault missy?? I did offer you my gloves by the way, I was the perfect gentlemen ;P and excuse me ;ast night you had a Spanish master class from me! Larga! (inside joke) haha"

Her : NOTHING in response

Today at 21:00 Me: "So thinking we continue our little adventures sometime this week;) you up for it?"

So she hasn't responded since then. Feedback please as to where i mucked this one up!

I see nothing wrong here at all. She is super-responsive and flirty in the texts.

She said she was sick. Ping her about that.

Thanks oceanx do you think that my texts look a bit afc? Or should it not matter if she is responding?

Your tests are fine. Her responses are good.
Don't be to quick to jump into negatives and think she is not interested. Maybe she lost her phone. Maybe there was an emergency in the family. Maybe she is too sick to come up with something witty.

Give it a few more days.

Al

Hey guys thanks for you help...she responded..we have a date set for this Friday so just wait and see what happens now, hopefully it all goes to plan.

I guess I can be guilty of over analysing texts a lot of the time and it can do your head in!! I am just hopeful that eventually I will come to a peace in my life where it all feels natural

Dude chill out with the "urgent help" business. There needs to be a sticky on it for real. Urgent help? This is about process. This isn't about ONE GIRL. This is about being a man about things and being secure with yourself so when a girl doesn't text back, WHO CARES. THERE ARE TEN MORE.

Get out of the habbit of neediness. When you want to feel good about yourself, don't rely on a woman. Rely on your SELF.

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