Ok so here is this story. Went out with a few friends and they brought along other friends big group of us. So I started gaming one of the newer girls everything was going good. Facebook closed she had to leave early so she did, later that night I get a message from her on Facebook saying how she's sorry that she had to take off turns out she could stay out longer. So starts joking about going to an after hours bar, I agree and tell her to pick me up (make sure she's not pulling my leg) she does we hang out until 4 am and are making out but she didn't want to head to my room. Saturday we continue talking all day through Facebook and Saturday night after we hung out again and same scenario as previous night except at her place. Same thing starts undoing my pants then stops and says she can't. At this point I just think shes not an easy girl and that intrigues me even more. So we have continued talking through Facebook went out for coffee and stuff I'm getting good signs and vibes from this girl but often time she will just stop the conversation on Facebook cold. Views message but doestn reply then later shell start up again. So WTF am I doing wrong?

To me it seems you could have pushed a bit more when you were at her place and she was undoing your pants then stopped. The point is to get HER naked, not you, and to get her so turned on that she cannot resist sex. If the next day the interaction seems to have cooled off (I'm assuming here, since you didn't mention making out with her again, just hanging out and talking over facebook), you may be slipping into the bottomless pit of LJBF. You should let girls know that you are a sexual guy that will not accept being LJBF-ed. Sometimes, all you get is one chance, and you will have to take it or forget about it... Drop the facebook time in favor of face-to-face time. This whole chatting thing is making her feel she can have your company without your physical presence...

You could ask her to come over to your place for drinks; she says yes, make out with her and let her understand where you want to take things. She says no, freeze her out over facebook for a few days and go out with other girls. Have them check in at some club and tag you. This will show her you are in demand... If she asks you where you were, or who are those girls, just say "I was out chilling with some friends"... Then invite her over to your place for drinks... Wash, rinse, repeat... Good luck!

Yeah thats what I was thinking, also from what I heard seems to be a girl that has been through some shitty relationships in the past so she kind of has this shield up. Today she asked me to go out with her to a bar, Im gunna play it cool from here out and do the whole freeze her out on facebook deal. Im super new to the game so sometimes not sure if I fucked up or not lol. Thanks for the reply, ill keep you posted.