A girl that I was talking to found herself another guy. I dropped the ball by being to aloof and not realizing how much I liked her until it was to late. My question is how should I handle this now? I will still be friendly when I see her but should I try to stay in contact with via facebook? texts? etc? We were somewhat friends (worked with her for a few months) before trying the romance thing. I really do like her company and she is super hot but not sure how to play it now?

Use this as a learning experience and move on. If she found another guy, that is the only person she wants to talk to you/see. You texting her will not change her mind, and even if it might, you are wasting your time.

Pick up your balls and move on. Next time, act on your feelings a bit more and make sure you dont leave any opportunities on the table.

Interact with her in person, don't text/call etc. unless she's proactively trying to text/call you.

I realize my mistake, had a few balls in the air and the one I really wanted dropped. I'm not trying to change her mind but want to remain friendly etc to try to keep the door open for later? any suggestions?

Just don't burn any bridges and come across alpha. That's all you can do.

Honestly, you shouldn't even be worried about "saving it for later, maybe". She doesn't want to be around a dude who sticks around and waits for her anyways, don't you think?

So what you need to do is be social, be alpha and have fun. This is not only great social proof and DHV, it also makes YOU a happier, more satisfied person. Girls dig guys who are happy and confident; let those actions speak.

There's nothing wrong with being friendly, but don't try to bite more off than you can munch you know what I mean?

Be cordial, be mysterious, be unavailable. Most of all, be fun and active.

Good luck man.

If you've banged makes it easier to start things up again after new guy is gone (hell some girls will keep banging you anyway) if you haven't banged makes things much harder. Not that this helps you much but if you game girls better and bang them earlier this will be less of an issue in the future. Keep in vague contact, remind her you're still around, regame next time you see her. Most new relationships last less than 6 months so decent chance she will be available again soon.

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