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I wouldn't focus on anything "romantic" that for after you f-close, otherwise it just comes off as try hard.
1. (Dominant eye contact)is actually more important and effective then 2 and 3 but just to give you some best practices to work with: Ill lead the interaction by placing my hand on their shoulder or lower back and direct them where to sit. I also pattern interrupt any perfunctory greeting they attempt to give me.
I will set the environment by telling them something I want them to wear and optimize our meet up location to eliminate distractions(Music, banal chatter, visual distractions) and external threats(AMOGS).
Is pattern interrupt when you disrupt the course of actions of another in order to impose your own? Nice, i havent studied nlp as of yet, so most of these concepts are new to me. Do you believe nlp really helps in social situations. Is it worth educating yourself over this subject?
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To OP, the answer isn't a simple this or that. It all depends on the initial interaction you had. If you made out and got hot, go straight for the kiss when you meet her if you want.
If you just organised a date, kiss on the cheek, hold a hug, lean back and give her a compliment.
Just make sure you are always direct and honest about your intentions. Make sure she knows you want her. If she gets offended or says she's not into you, bail.
Ok so it varies depending on existing dynamics and chemistry and there's no default action. But To answer to that in regards to a current situation, no there has been no escalation, i recently met a girl in her place of work a couple of times, and immediately number closed. But no attraction has been built yet. And i want to set the stage for that.
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