| So if you've already hit it off and you're comfortable with her, why would you need routines? Answer; you don't. Routines are a way in with a girl, you're already 'in'.
My advice would be not to put too much on this. You say you're not nervous, but if you're thinking she's so great now, then you may freeze and dry up when you get to the date. That doesn't mean you need to try and change anything you've already done, but it means just don't worry about the outcome. Concentrate on having fun with her, just enjoy her company. If you're worrying about "not messing it up" then you're not going to be concentrating on being yourself and having fun.
Your comment about relationships is miles off the mark, not least because loads of people on here have had and are currently in long term relationships. However, this isn't a relationship. You've had one date (if that's what you want to call it). Don't get carried away with this one. When you've been together for a while, you're sleeping with her regularly, and you have started to slip naturally into "relationship mode" then come back and ask about relationships (and maybe don't start slagging off the forum at large when you haven't got a reply a whole one day after you've posted - some of us don't read these forums every half an hour or so, nor can many of us be bothered to help anyone who starts getting prissy!)
So to summarise, relax, be yourself, concentrate on the moment not the outcome and do what you have been doing - you've apparently already hit it off with her, just keep doing what you were.
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