Thanks smash. Yeah, I did have oneitis about this one after I met her, but I'm dating 5 other girls right now... all HB7.5+, so I'm not too concerned. But she is a good one and she has said she wants to do stuff next weekend, without me pushing for a next meeting. I just need to find a way to raise the attraction.. since I already had plenty of it at first, but things have slowed down, I'm not really sure what to do about it now.

Any ideas?

well, i would try being unpredictable - maybe - try this - ( others feel free to give feedback )

call and set up a date - but make it sound like you are unsure - something like" ok, friday at.. hum.. i can squeez you in for a 745-9 pm apt, but you have to bring a redbull for me incase you are boring - .. " that works great! - haha... then - i would small talk for a while - before she can answer - cut it off and have to go...

like 10 min call her again or text this time and say that you forgot , you have plans and that it will have to be either in like 30 min for ice cream or like thursday or something -

attraction works with unpredictability - and being funny ( red bull )

i would also think outside the box on this one - make it sound like you and her are going to be alone ( without saying exactly that ) and invite another girlfriend along - as david D once said " that is idon'tneedawomansapproval.com

haha

good luck- hope for feedback -

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call and set up a date - but make it sound like you are unsure - something like" ok, friday at.. hum.. i can squeez you in for a 745-9 pm apt, but you have to bring a redbull for me incase you are boring - .. " that works great! - haha... then - i would small talk for a while - before she can answer - cut it off and have to go...


dude i love this red bull line going to try it tonight on a number i got. will let you know.

also for the guy who posted this thread i wouldnt worry to much about heightening the attraction, if she is game for a second date then just get it aranged and be all casual, just let it flow on the second date. she has been keeping you guessing so there is no point setting a plan out just let it flow on the meet up.

Thanks for the advice guys. No date as yet... we'll see how things look for this weekend. Will update then.

Dude, if you have 5 dates already... f that girl! The only reason that your chasing her is because she is a challenge. Also im guessing that at some time you became needy. Because you gave too much value to this one girl and made her out to be special, typical AFC behavior, snap the f*k out of it!

no point....why the fuck would you waste your time with a girl who can't even call or text you back? Ive learned from this the hard way...This is probably one of the weaker parts of my game, phones....I sometimes seem to eager, you just gotta play it non-chalant, make em call you.

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