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| Incubus69 | PostPosted: Sun Jan 20, 2008 7:07 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Thu Jan 17, 2008 4:51 am Posts: 794 Yahoo Messenger: Oh_no81@yahoo.com AOL: Stealth7081 Location: Manhattan, IL | | My fellow PUA's! Just reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss when I came up with a problem.
Like 3 months ago, I had a TARGET named ELISE8. She was hot as hell, well better than anyone working at Walmart. Great big tits, skinny body. Blondish long hair, with blue eyes. Just HOT!
I first met her when I was talking to someone else. PAWNED my friend, I wanted to so badly talk with her. This was when I was first starting to know how to play the game.
I asked my friend what time it was and she cut in. We FLUFF talked awhile then I was going to smoke and asked her if she wanted to smoke. I offered a cigarette since she had only a short.
We smoked and chit chatted. We were building RAPPORT and a EMOTIONAL CONNECTION. We talked about movies, and music like that. I was LISTENING to her and RESPONDING by CONNECTING each of her questions or answer. I used COLD-READing with her which impressed her.
Later on as I found more information about the GAME. I proceeded to NEG her and C&F. I remember telling her that she was a dork where she smiled and asked me what I said. "You're a dork!" I told her smiling. After I was done with with I wanted to see her. So I nicknamed her dork and ugly (which ugly may have crossed the line). We hugged and I told her that I did'nt want to get in trouble. She didn't think we would but all well!
I got her email address but the email didn't go through. It said that the mailbox was unavailable. So I began to PUSH-PULL with her and sometimes FREEZE-OUT her. I walked in the smoking room where she was sitting by these guys; they weren't any threat. She told me that I was late. What? When in the hell was I suppost to be ontime?! This was an IOI that I didn't see at first.
I would further PUSH-PULL with her and get more results. However, the interaction seemed to die down. SHe stopped calling me Cartboy which was an IOI. (She already had a boyfriend), so during break she would be on her cell phone talking to her boyfriend while I was sitting there. This was insane! She could probably sense I was angry and disgusted. The cell phone was her boyfriend and her boyfriend gets wacked out when another guy talks to her. Another JEALOUS-FREAK! She told me that if she had her own that she would give me her number.
Periodically when talking to her she would bend down showing her CLEAVAGE. I wouldn't look because I knew that's what she wanted. She would look up at me while she was doing this and grin. This was an IOI.
Here's the problem guys! Why all these IOI's and no ACTION? I mean her boyfriend was a PSYCHO path; following her around the store. What was happening? DId I fuck up or do anything, could I have done something more? Tell me! PEACE OUT! _________________ "Women Love What They Can't Have!"
My official underground website
http://f4fc0878.linkbucks.com
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| Ezo | PostPosted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 10:45 am | |
| Offline | | Moderator |  | Joined: Sun Nov 11, 2007 2:04 pm Posts: 4238 | | Maybe her BF found out and got mad... Maybe she was just flirting with you without any intention of ever taking it all the way. Maybe you took too long to pull the trigger...
Ezo
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| Heartbeat | PostPosted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 12:41 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sun Jan 20, 2008 9:37 am Posts: 19 | | It's rarely a case of 'what's wrong with them'. It's usually 'what you did wrong'.
Flirting is great, but if at no stage it progresses, things get stale, and it just becomes more of a jokey flirt than a serious one.
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| speed-bird | PostPosted: Mon Jan 21, 2008 9:08 pm | |
| Offline | | THIS IS SPARTA!!! |  | Joined: Thu Nov 29, 2007 5:48 am Posts: 300 Location: San Francisco, CA | | I flirt like crazy with this barmaid who flirts with me even though she has a BF. It's been going on for months and it's become a standing joke, her manager says "Oh look Gil, it's your boyfriend!" whenever I come in for lunch. It's not a serious flirting situation though, but I just keep it going because it's fun and keeps me in a sociable mindset. This stuff is to be enjoyed, so just keep on flirting and enjoy it even if it's not going to go anywhere.
Is she a coworker? Bad idea dating coworkers.
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| Incubus69 | PostPosted: Wed Jan 23, 2008 4:39 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Thu Jan 17, 2008 4:51 am Posts: 794 Yahoo Messenger: Oh_no81@yahoo.com AOL: Stealth7081 Location: Manhattan, IL | | Yes, she's a ex co-worker. She doesn't longer work at Walmart. However, she got pregnant with either BOBBY or some other guy. I don't know. However, she's off my SARGING LIST. It's into better things now. Yes, dating co-workers are tricky. However, if you do it right you should be able to pull it off. However, I still get in trouble standing around and talking to people. Do I care? No! I abuse the system and get a way with it! I leave work every either 20 minutes earilier or 10 minutes earily. All they need is the lot to be clear. That's all they care about so they don't get in trouble. This brings me to a better advantage to take over and do what I want. However, I'm not sugguesting you to do this. So let's just say I didn't say that. _________________ "Women Love What They Can't Have!"
My official underground website
http://f4fc0878.linkbucks.com
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| Brandonjg | PostPosted: Fri Jan 25, 2008 7:25 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sun Jul 15, 2007 5:53 pm Posts: 123 Website: http://www.myspace.com/brandonrwc AOL: norbrandcal650 Location: Roseville, California | | no reason to neg... i learn that the hard way... you negged her for no reason and that comes across as being a douche-bag...only neg to break her bitch shield... calling a girl ugly is definately shooting yourself in the foot big time. DONT BE AN ASSHOLE. Neg appropriately _________________ I like vagina.
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