Hi Everyone. I'm new here. Quick background on me: I read "The Game" about 4 years ago, just recently got out of a LTR and am back sarging. I'm 23 and I have been reading the posts here for a week or so and have decided to become a member and see where it takes me.

Now my problem:
My texting sucks.

I've been going out 2-3 nights a week and each time I number close several girls and I sometime k-close one or two. But I've been trying to get to a day 2 and it just is not working. I try to be short, concise and to the point but things just don't go anywhere.

For example. Last weekend I danced with a HB8 got her number and k-closed at the end of the night. Waited 3 days to text here and this is a synopsis of our texting conversation.

Me: "I enjoyed meeting you the other night. I'd like to hang out with you again"
Her: "It was nice to meet you too! Yeah I'd like that"

I don't text until Thursday

Me: "Hey are you going out tonight?"
Her: "No. Have fun!"

My issue is that she made no effort to make new plans, and I don't want to appear AFC by texting constantly.

Any ideas or suggestions for this scenario as well as my texting style (or lack thereof) in general?

Thanks!

dont try to use texting to increase attraction, good text game can increase credibility and militate attraction but texting isn't your issue here.

You need to form more of an emotional connection with these girls before you # close / k-close and bail (when possible). You aren't making enough of an impression on these girls when they are no longer in the same emotional state as when you met that they care enough to pursue the initially meeting.

Thanks for the feedback. So I should run longer routines and develop attraction further when I meet them as opposed to meeting them and closing them quickly?

I guess I was ill advised believing that a close meant attraction. Thanks for the tip.

Learn to be a good kisser. That's probably the best way to be remembered. There's too many people who can't kiss properly. It's not just kissing that makes you a good kisser but the way you handle a woman, look at her as you're about to kiss her and how you turn things sexual, making her want you all the more.

A really good way to show your dominance and control over her and give her a taste of what you're like is to grab her by the waist, slowly but firmly back her against a wall and give her a penetrating stare as you go in to kiss her. Be firm, press against her and be confident. Learn to pull this off correctly and you'll definitely be remembered, just learn to kiss properly and not do the 15 year old washing machine kiss. Yuck!

After that she's hooked in for a good while no matter what you do. There's a certain truth to the saying "A woman will know if she'll sleep with you based on the first kiss." She'll remember that kiss, especially if you're a good kisser in a non-intimate setting like a club. After all, a kiss is a taste of what you're like sexually.

Also, if you've just sent her a message saying "Hey, enjoyed the night. Lets do it again." and leave it at that for a few days then you've essentially lost her interest. You need to, as mentioned before, create a connection. You need to be interesting in your messages and convey to her that your interested in seeing her again and she's not just an afterthought. If you're not going to reply say you're busy and you'll message her closer to heading out or something. This way she expects to hear from you again and you don't come across as needy or AFC, you're an important guy with a lot of important stuff going on.

"Me: "I enjoyed meeting you the other night. I'd like to hang out with you again"
Her: "It was nice to meet you too! Yeah I'd like that"

I don't text until Thursday

Me: "Hey are you going out tonight?"
Her: "No. Have fun!"

My issue is that she made no effort to make new plans, and I don't want to appear AFC by texting constantly."

I don't get it..

What makes you think it's your text game?

You asked if she is out tonight in such a weak and vague way. Why should she give you an alternate new plans? You asked her out on a day that she probably busy with her mates? Why not just arrange to meet with her one on one?? :s

You also left if too long to text her, strike whilst the iron is hot, think of it at spinning plates. or keeping a fire a light.

You need to scrap that gamey bollox from your head and send her this text message before you fuck if up:

"Hey, let's go for a drink after the weekend, what day are you free?"

That is all that is needed. My gut feeling is that she is interested. You are still good to go. Just don't say "are you out tonight?" It's like the shittest way to ask for a date ever.

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for men yes we make our decisions regarding woman almost immediately without reference points, for woman n. They can kiss you have fun and laugh but one day later you are just some random dude, with unknown status, no social proof, who seemed cool but they dont really "know".

Alright, I'm trying your method, I sent the message almost exactly as you wrote it, I just added her name, and we will see how it goes.

I do agree it was a lame excuse for asking her out, I need to work on being more direct.

And about striking when the iron's hot... isn't the common method of acceptable waiting to text time 3 days?

Not if you have something good and witty to say. Three days is the cut off point in general. It's at three days she'll message you if you left a good enough impression(i.e. left her thinking about you all weekend). After that you've shown no interest.

I learned that recently myself. You can text the day after and not think too much into coming across as an AFC, difference is as a PUA you've shown your worth and she'll be hooked into you and be thinking about how interesting you were the night before and how she wants to meet you again. An AFC will just get lucky and think it's a sure thing. As a PUA you know you played it well, hooked her in and she's thinking about you.

Remove the wait 3 days rule from brain now.

You will lose girls otherwise.

I usual text them as soon as they give me their number, so then when they wake up, they see an entire conversation in their phone, thus you will stand out from all the other guys in her phone.

They usually text me with some inside joke call back humour

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