I have been building comfort with an HB9 I see at NA meetings several times a week. During the meeting she gave me some strong IOI's. Afterward we smoked a cig outside and fluffed. We discovered that we actually live in the same apartment complex. I asked her if she ever went to the bar nearby and found out she was only 19 so my attempt at a time bridge failed... Anyway she walked really close to me as we walked to our cars, and then she asked me if I would be at group again tomorrow.

How should I play it tomorrow evening? Since we live right next to each other I know there has to be a clever way use that to my advantage. I would like to take her on an instant date after group tomorrow but Ive never done this.

Nearby venues for insta-date:
Starbucks
Cool coffee shop that serves wine (unfortunately she's under age)
Burrito Restaurant
Frozen Yogurt Place
Grocery Store
Fast Food Places
Park
Back to My Condo?

I was thinking of asking her if she has plans after group and telling her i'm going to walk over to the Burrito place for diner if she would like to join me. But even then, is there a more organic way for us to get back to the complex together? We both drive to meeting and I still don't know exactly where she lives but its less than a 5 minute walk from my condo. Also I believe she lives with her mom so her place probably isn't an option but I don't want to be to forward and suggest mine.


~Entropy

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Not bad, but I would re-frame slightly."I'm starving, we're going over to (Burrito Restaurant)." Offer your hand to lead her there. Then after you brazenly show your skills at scarfing down a burrito without using your fingers, Bounce to the (Frozen Yogurt Place), and look at you slick already two dates under your belt, and you haven't gone more than a couple blocks!

By this time she's pretty comfortable I would think.

Say something like "Hey your to little to get into the bar with me, let's stop by my place, I'll let you have a sip of my beer."

I hope you know what to do after that!

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