Hi there,

I'm really new to this whole online community, largely as I suffer from one-itis. Which I am okay with.

Anyway the reason I'm posting now is I'm curious to see others opinions on this and follow advice from people knowing the hell what's going on.
The situation as it stands is I knew this girl a few years ago that despite having back at my place I never F-closed, thought it would potentially be more and both wanted to take it slow. After this I lost contact and never seen her till a couple of weeks ago. We hit it off immediately again kissed, exchanged numbers and began texting. We agreed to meet up and go on a date this time, which went extremely well. Decided to go back to hers F-closed then went back out to a club with friends then back to hers again. In the morning, I had to leave for work. But she asked if I wanted to stay again that night. I did and after work I went back over and we had a very quiet night in just watching films and having sex again. In the morning I had to leave for work again, we had a goodbye kiss and then I left.

My issue now is that she seems less responsive to texts and when I asked about potentially doing something else this week if she was free, she told me she is moving mid week and will be busy with that. Which is a fairly good reason for being unavailable although she made no effort to state about meeting up after.
How should I play this as I'd really like a 2nd/3rd date with the girl?

Cheers for any advice.

Freeze out, you've fucked her twice now. Don't chase.

If she wants to see you again she will contact you.

If you want to give it another shot, message her in 2-3 weeks and just invite her to your place. No response and you have your answer. Don't pursue it.

maybe.

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Being "in the middle" is the worst place to be. The "middle" being that place where you don't know if she does or doesn't want more. Your only true ally in these situations is your intuition. What does your intuition tell you? If she is acting differently to before then something is up. You know this. Don't try to make it seem like anything else. If she is less responsive, this usually tells you a few things, the main thing being that she has other important stuff to do in her life, more important than the thing going on between you and her. It could have been that she thought about it, and realized it's not actually what she is looking for right now.

It is incredibly difficult, nigh impossible to change a woman's mind once it is set. Do not even try. Girls' minds don't work with reason. They truly don't. If she feels it isn't right, then it isn't right. And she will not budge.

The only true thing you can do here is to refrain from being needy, play it cool, and hit her up casually to test the waters. Don't react to any of her stuff. If she continues to avoid you, I am sorry my friend it is over.

Hi guys thanks for the responses and the advice. Did leave it to cool and sent a casual text. No reply. Ahh well onwards and upwards I suppose.
Thanks again guys, appreciate it