| Got this idea as I moved to a new area, approached a HB8, had a long conversation asking her about buying place in this town. She said I should really consider renting a place for six months before buying which gave me a light bulb for this date idea. This does work great if it’s 1st date/day2 or even an online first date.
STEP 1 PREGAME : YOU CAN DO THIS ON EVERY DATE: Once your date is setup with a time and location, you look up roommate ads on craigslist within a short distance of where the date will be located. Ideally look for places that aren’t all males, look for females. You simply call and request a showing of the place an hour or two after the date. If they say no, move on to the next ad until you solid appointment.
STEP 2 UPON MEETING YOUR DATE: In the beginning of the date tell her ASAP something like "I'm trying to relocate to this town (my lease is ended and am looking for a place closer to XXX), I've been in communication with the place for a potential roomie, I'm going to occasionally check my phone to see if they texted me." Then enjoy the beginning of your date.
STEP 3 BAIL OR MAKE THE APPT?
BAIL: At anytime, if the vibe isn’t there or you know she’s DTF and going to the appointment would be a waste of time, you can bail. If you bail, try and be somewhat respectful and let the owners know you can’t make it. Tell your date “I just got a text” whip out your phone and text them you can’t make it telling her “oh cool, I’m going to check this place out next week”.
APPT: Pull out phone 15mins before the appointment and tell her "holy shit, are you spontaneous? So they have an opening but it's in 15mins...What the fuck, we're going to check this place out together, it'll be fun!"
STEP4 THE APPT ITSELF, ENDLESS S.E.
Since you’re not actually moving in, you can be as cocky as you want. Do setup the expectations right, at least tell them upon arriving that you are looking at a dozen other places so if they’re super needy they’re not expecting you to move in.
You got lots of S.E. opportunities. I’ve used: To the owner, “can I paint the bedroom red?” “why?”, "<date's name> and I are animals in the sack, we need a sex dungeon, you know, red room of pain from Fifty Shades of gray." Or ask her "what do you think, bed right against that wall, big mirror on the ceiling and porno camera tripod in that corner, right?" If there’s a hot tub and I said to the date, "We're going to have to negotiate how many times a week you can skinny dip in this thing; I know you want 7 but let's cap it to 3 times a week, okay?"
STEP5 BACK TO THE DATE
Now you did something spontaneous, lots of S.E. was thrown out, you can now ask if she's ever skinny dipped or the craziest place she's done it, etc.
STEP X, BONUS, EXPANDED SOCIAL CIRCLE. Remember how I said ideally you want women roomies? You’ll have the number of whoever posted the ad on craigslist. If there are other HB’s living there and they didn’t post the ad, try and get their number. You already have social proof and reasonable doubt, if you say it like this you probably won't piss off your date “As you know I’m relocating to this town, what nightspots do you guys go to?” “Like I said, I’m looking at other places, but am always looking to meet new people from this town, what’s your number? Let’s ALL go out next weekend.” Once you have her number, next weekend, even if your date isn’t going to be present tell her “my girl and I were looking for something to do, let’s hit up that night spot you recommended.” Upon the roomie target's arrival, tell her your girl is feeling ill, you’re out to party now but need to leave in an hour to take care of her. Then later you can say she texted me that she’s too tired and me coming over would be a waste of time.
To recap.
FREE
Something fun and different, she's most likely never done anything like this
Endless of S.E. opportunities
She gets to see how you can handle yourself with other guys/girls
Also can learn a lot about her home life by asking things about dishes, laundry, etc
May expand your social circle.
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