Hi all,

What's the best level to begin touching with a girl you've never met in person, but have sexted and traded dirty pics and with whom you've had a handful of long conversations?

I met a girl on OLD who went abroad on the very day I asked her out. But she gave me her number and we started exchanging texts. Within a week we were talking dirty and trading revealing pics and over the next month and a half we had 4 or 5 long phone conversations and got a little close for comfort probably.

She's finally coming in Thursday and she has a new dress she wants me to see and I'm hoping, take off!

P.S. One logistical prob is we're probably meeting at a chic bar that's about 15 minutes from my place, and my place is just a little out of the way. Trying to smooth over that transition. . .

Thanks for comments!

Give her a hug and kiss her cheek as your hello. Pull back, look at her sexually right in the eye while you are still touching her and say "you look fantastic."

If she holds eye contact, or looks away/down because she's shy, just kiss her.

If not, offer your arm/hand and lead her to a seat (try make it comfortable). Escalate.

Anyway, in summary, what level? Every level, just go for it son, be bold, she's up for it and will let you know if he's not ready.

Nice! Thanks for the words, bud. That's along the lines of what I'm thinking, too!