Hi fellow PUAs ,

My question is how should I go about setting up a date with a particular girl.

Alright a bit of background information :
There is always a spark or chemistry when I see this girl , however when texting or FB message this spark/chemistry dies pretty quick I notice.

So thats why I want to see her face to face , I have tried asking her out twice now over text and both times she has come back with an excuse but she always replies to my messages which I find weird.

I feel as if she is testing me , or she wants me to succeed but is not giving me much to work with.

Please share similar experiences guys or ways to setup this date.

Thanks

I've had a similar experience. To see the details, look at my past posts.

In my humble opinion, what works best when you don't have a chance to show your value directly and texts / fb kill all the attraction is to disappear at all.
this worked great for me, but mind, it took me almost two months to take her out after a kiss close in a club...

out of these two months, I spent 3 weeks in silence, then wrote her again being very direct. she proposed a date and we finally met
(most people on this forum will now argue that HER proposing a date means I'm weak and blah blah blah... most girls I talked to, anyway, told me how unreasonable it is when they get proposed a time and a place, and how it makes them feel pressured. anyway, this is just a detail, and it may work out very differently for you)

anyway, good luck!