i need some advice. So I met this girl online shes 24 im 33 exchanged #s and we started texting a big but then she disappeared. Waited a week sent her a txt and she started responding and we went set up to go on a date last thursday. Date goes well, laughing, shes twirling her hair when she talks to me (i read somewhere thats a good sign) and she even makes suggestions for where we should go next time. we hung out from like 8-11. So I walk her back to her car she looks at me and smiles and looks like she wants to kiss me so we do, afterwards i tell her txt me when you get home so i know you get home safely. she txts me when shes home and i tell her thanks i had a good time to which she replies she had a good time as well, i txt her back im looking forward to seeing you again and she says the same. I dont hear from her at all on friday but i send a friend request on facebook (probably a bad move on my part) and she adds me. I shoot her a txt saturday and i tell her i looked up some information for her that she asked me about thursday, she says great and i say we'll we can talk about it next time we get together and then i say so i guess we can use this as a prelude to me asking you out again she responds "haha i would be honored " and i replied haha i bet you are whens good for you? that was 235 yesterday. is she interested or not? do i pursue it or let it go? whats the play? She did say the last guy she dated made her chase him and because of it she fell in love with him but he didnt feel the same and he cheated on her.

In order to give the best advice it helps to know the times (time gaps) of each of the texts.

also "haha i bet you are whens good for you" I would cut out the "haha I bet you are" unless you think it's necessary or helpful based on the relationship so far. you never know exactly how a woman is going to interpret that.

I don't know anything about online dating or much about the type of people who do it so I'm not going to try to advise further other than to say you may want to text again and ask a similar question to when she's available again. A lot of times a simple text can get missed, or forgotten about

usually the gap is hours, shes a bartender so a lot times id text her at night and i hear back in the middle of the night or the next day. This time tho i havent heard from her in over a day now, i usually initiate the texts never her and we havent exchanged many. should i call her instead? or wait for her to reach out to me? I sent her one more text tonight asking her when the next time shes off, i havent heard anything back

It's unlikely she's going to reach out to you and if she's a bar tender shes got a lot of guys hitting on her if she looks decent. If she's doing a good job she's also going to be flirting with a lot of guys. I wouldn't put much faith in locking down a bar tender. Call maybe