This is a girl who i went out with a year ago..I did some really dumb stuff, became way to clingy and lost her. She actually ended up hating me because some of the really...stupid shit I did. I tried to get in touch with her for a couple months after, but she didnt budge so I gave up. But a few months later i texted her...she was a bit friendly...then i texted her a few weeks later..and now ive finally had dinner with her.

Dinner went pretty good, we had a little kiss on the lips at the end . We drove separately. After the kiss as we split we went to our separate cars she said "text me tomorrow"

Should I do it or not? I've changed a lot since the last time I dated her, and think it might be best not to, just to show her ive changed, and to not give her control or come off as even remotely needy. But maybe that is just stupid. I do like her. What do you think?

I wouldn't text her, will definitely show her you've changed and if she enjoyed herself she will get in touch with you.