i talked to this model online for about half a year, exchanging many lengthy emails in the process which made her really look forward to meeting me after she came back from abroad. when she came to my country, we met up a couple of times so i could do some 'test shoots' with her (i'm a photographer). there was plenty of eye contact, not much kino during our first meet up. but she was comfortable with the high level of eye contact and didnt seem to have any self esteem issues. on our second meeting, it was at the beach and i attempted some kino which was reciprocated, such as cuddling in the sea, smacking her in the ass as a form of punishment and poking her boobs (nothing serious here, just for fun). as usual, i managed with staring at her figure the whole time and she was comfortable with it. however, after we left that day, she sent me some texts which posed a really big problem for me:

'maybe other girls would enjoy being stared at, a little is fine but not too much, though you havent crossed the line yet' (im pretty sure i stared for ages)
'another photographer scared me away because he was too affectionate but in your case it's something else'
'im not sure that if you attempt something more, i would feel alright or not, i dont think you would grab my boobs or something but i might be upset if you do, even if you kiss me'
'i'm saying this because i might appear to be easy going with some people and give them the wrong idea but so far i think we are good together'

this model currently has a BF who resides in europe, and would not be back until late august. she has been extremely comfortable with sex talk and massages but i havent been able to safely escalate past that so far in fear that she might break off all contact.

however, i will be doing an upcoming shoot in a couple of days for her and she's gonna be in lingerie most of the time (and i have plans to eventually turn it into nude/erotica). we have booked a hotel room and we are staying over for the night (so the location is more or less in my favor) but she claims that she would not cheat on her BF. i'm not sure if this could lead to an f-close but any advice towards that would be extremely appreciated! i havent been practicing the game for quite a while so i'm a little rusty