I went out with a girl a couple of days ago, and it really clicked between us. Now we chat a lot on facebook, the thing is: because of work and big distances we cannot see each other for about 10 weeks (then I move places, not closer) she said she'd visit me then. My thing is:

Should I really try to keep the conversation going and chat everyday until then? or if it happens let the conversation go slow and try to pick it up then.

I've had a few like this recently. I met a girl travelling, we hit it off connected on Facebook. Another she was travelling in my home city, we made out a bit, I was too drunk to take her home, but we friended on Facebook as well. Both I only met up with once,( the second actually invited me to a club the next day, I went along but didnt see her as I met another girl) both I'd really like to see again. Both plan to come to my city (again)in the future. Neither do I really spend all that much time in contact.

I might say hi every now and then, or like a post/comment but don't really chat. The reason? What's the point? There are other girls around. May as well just keep them in the bank, if/when I see them again, it's on!

thanks for the reply, The dilemma I have: I don't wanna be/come over as desperate, but I really like to meet her again.
Good Idea to meet in the middle and make it a nice 2 days trip?

Only if you have a reason to come back that isn't to see them. Do NOT drive all the way just to see them. I hope I don't have to explain why...

10 weeks isn't that long man. Just game other girls in the interim.

You could always throw in the casual "hey why don't you come down and chill for a weekend? I'll show you round the town." It's no risk, you're being friendly, if she says she can't you've lost nothing because all you've done is invite her. Just make sure you come across as not caring if she declines and you will be fine. If she takes your invite, you are in.

Otherwise just wait a few weeks. Honestly, 10 weeks of gaming knowing I've got a sick bird to escalate when I get home? Bring it on!!!

What would you suggest if the time period before you could see each other again was much larger, like a year? Would you just text every month or so asking how they are, then propose you meet up together to catch up when the time comes?