I met a girl online and we met once in real life. She was scared way when I was trying to make out with her in a park at night. Later on she told me that she felt hurt because of my move. However, she still keeps in contact with me. This afternoon she sent me a SMS saying that she will come back to my city on this Sunday.
So I want to know, what can I do? What can I reply to her? Obviously she is somewhat attracted to me and she secretly wants to meet me again, but I need a good pretext, and also when I meet her, I need to find a good pretext to bring her to a place where sex can realistically happen. I am pretty sure that if I tell her, "Let's go to a hotel." She will turn me down bluntly, because she doesn't want to be seen as an easy girl. So I need a good pretext to bring her to a place where sex can happen. Please help! Thank you.

she was scared when you wanted to kiss her and now you want to talk to her into having sex with you? and you still did not kissed her. i somehow don't thnik pretext is the problem.
a girl needs arround 7 hours to get confortable enough to have sex, and in meantime kino escalation is the key. you can bounce from place to place so she feels more connected to you, but you still have to face LMR.

First of all think out your game ahead, go with her in someplace she feels safe and there she will be more willing having sex.

Pretext: let's go to a club, let's have some fun, get back to her place, crash at her place, keep her in your arms and kiss her (if she feels like having sex you will know) and in morning make your move. in the morning she will feel it passed so much time and she will not get buyers remorse

Hotel sex is for hookers, GF or affair.

hope this helps