Hey guys, I'm new to the pua scene. Classic AFC, sick and depressed so I decided to make big changes in my life.
I've been chatting up this HB9 (red hair, 24 yrs old, busty but fit) I'm a chef and she works in the office. I started out negging her because she forgot my name a week after i intro'd myself to her and after that it seems shes taken more interest in me, more than the other chefs (who all try and hit on her too). I get her number and tell her I have a few days off coming up and that we should have a drink. She agrees and gives me her number (she also touches my arm when she talks to me).
I txt her 2 days later asking what day she wanted to have drinks (her options are thursday, friday) she txt me back the next day and tells me a friend from out of town is in and she was hanging with them and suggests that 'maybe we can have drinks next week'.

Next week I see her at work once or twice (its hard to have a 2 minute conversation at work with anyone as chefs we are very busy people) We only were able to briefly say hi (she touches my arm again) and apparently she waved goodbye to me as she left but it was during service and I missed it (maybe a good thing?)

ANYWAY! now the freeze out. So last week she flaked for that friend from out of town and this week she flaked because she said she wasnt sure of my days off (my days off are the same as last weeks, no excuse there) so instead she was having drinks with another guy from the restaurant next door (owned by the same owner) but she just so happen to mention that the guy was gay (she did this by saying she was 'having drinks with gay jason)

So bascially she's flaked 2 weeks in a row, I didnt reply to her last message about her being at drinks with a gay guy and i am pretty much freezing her out. This is my first freeze out so I'm not exactly sure if im using it right or how long I freeze her out for.

Based on the information i have supplied. What would you guys do?

Never dip your pen in company ink.

You could also use a female friend that she don't know. This girl friend can be your pawn. She will act like she's date for the night. She shows up as you are getting of work, ya'll act flirty toward each other in front of her blah blah. Then ya'll leave together. Simple. Then ya'll just go seperate ways, or take her to dinner for helping you.

You could ask her if she had any single friends. This way she thinks that you are no longer interested in her which will make her want to get your attention again. If she asks if your free on this or that day (one of your days off), ask why. Does she have a friend she wants to introduce you to?

Basically the freeze out is acting as if you are no longer ingested in her. The freeze out is not something to use until you're in the bed and she's not giving it up.

You're a chef. You can cook great meals. Every female likes a man who can cook. Offer to cook for her and a friend, or just her at your place.

These are some ideas to get your mind spinning in the right direction of how to work this woman.

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