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 Post subject: how to handle this?
PostPosted: Thu Jun 06, 2013 2:48 am 
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After 6 times, hanging out, I finally f-closed, spent the night. She indicated she wanted to date, etc. I said I wanted to as well. Next morning, her phone was going off from okcupid notifications, she indicated she deleted the profile weeks ago. Besides that, Things went well, I texted her the next day and said how much fun she had and wanted to see me again.

I was last one to reach out on Sunday, I assume she is heading to dates as well. If I reach out, she will ask where I've been or if I don't reach out and she does, she will ask were I've been. What do I do in this situation? Do I reach out or do I think shes moved on?


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 Post subject: Re: how to handle this?
PostPosted: Thu Jun 06, 2013 4:03 am 
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If you're legit interested move forward. Call, text, do something.

Say you were busy. Make some shit up (only if she asks). She'll know it's an excuse but who gives a shit?

You can't just let shit like that die off if you're interested and wait for her to make contact. Take the initiative.


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 Post subject: Re: how to handle this?
PostPosted: Thu Jun 06, 2013 5:40 am 
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Next morning, her phone was going off from okcupid notifications, she indicated she deleted the profile weeks ago.
You ever wonder why her phone's notifications were going nuts if she did in fact delete her profile?

That said, you've been THREE days without contact. Three days is really long by the norms of early relationships, so right away that's a second yellow flag.

Either way, just keep doing what you were doing. Was she initiating contact? Were you? Was it a mix? If she was initiating, and she hasn't been in touch with you, then obviously that's your third and final yellow flag. If you've been the one to initiate throughout, then why the hell haven't you?


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 Post subject: Re: how to handle this?
PostPosted: Sat Jun 08, 2013 3:32 am 
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Update - she reached out asked how I was doing, we went back and forth but nothing since. I would like to sleep with her again but I don't want to date her. how should I handle it?


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