This gorgeous woman invited me to a little gathering and I didn't go because everyone has been drinking and I told her "ima sit this one out and take care of my pal but I will see her again." This was the same night I got her phone number and met at a bar. The thing is he hasn't text back. What should I do from here? What to text or call ? Just some direction would be fine. She was really into me at te bar and was the hottest one there.

You're dead in the water; your chance with her was at that place and time. It happens, women are spontaneous, and sometimes THEN/NOW is your shot. The moment passed, she cooled off, and she's just not into it. .

I got a text last night at 11pm from this girl I'm talking to because she wanted me to hangout with her while she was bartending (the bar was DEAD); my ass got up out of bed and went at 11pm, b/c at 11pm, SHE was thinking about me; made a good decision.

Wait a few days and shoot her another text, see if she responds; if you call it'll go straight to VM. DON'T become the stalker-creepy guy who blows her phone up asking her to chill. This guy was doing that to the girl I went to see last night, and all her and I did was read his texts out loud, and laugh.

It's cool I don't have a car and we've all been drinking, so it's not my fault or her fault. I can bounce back an if not then ill just move on to bigger and better things. I'm not a needy guy, ill give her a shot when I see her and see where things go from there. Remember she's lucky to be getting MY attention.