This girl I've been talking to on and off for the last month and a half seems to be an NDR.

Setting up a day 2 has been tricky with her. We've both seem to have busy schedules and she kind of flaked on me last time. She did later apologize and sent me a text saying she was "cautious".

At that point I was over it and moved on. I see her 2 weeks later at a bar and we rebuild that attraction and end the night in the K-Close. But before I did that, I asked her about the text and she was completely honest with me. Saying that I remind of her ex(same religion) that broke up with her and got an arranged married 5 months later. I straight up got qualified by her and didn't realize it till I got home.

That same night she's driving us back to her place, but half way through the drive she hesitates and starts making excuses that she's tired and that her place is a mess. She just didn't seem into it even though we built so much attraction during the night. So ended up not F-closing. I didn't make a big deal about it. She dropped me off at my place, but I k-closed again before leaving the car.

She seems like relationship material, which I don't mind. But I also want to take things real slow with this girl.

Anyways, what's my next move with this girl? I guess it's setting up a day 2 with her, but how do I approach this with a NDR?

And How should I deal with her being "cautious"? I think that's a bigger barrier for me.

I'm a newbie, so any advice would be great!