I just got out of a pretty ugly relationship ,and I want to get back in the game
I did what I knew best, and mass messaged a bunch of girls on facebook, and one of them took the bait and managed to get her number

She's a 10, and she just turned 19
I'm 23 and a newbiew introverted PUA
I've only got the confidence to talk to new girls last year, so I'm pretty new and inexperienced with this
I know exactly the kind of fun, bantery PUA I want to become, but I also know I'm still far from there, so I might only get to kissing this girl before I lose interest

But, I know this first date is going to be an important experience lesson, so I'd love to get some tips to improve my chances of having a fun time with this girl
Unfortunately, I live in a small boring town,but I'll try to take advantage of whatever I can

So any tips or tricks on what I should do on my first date?Is there a goal I should aim for, such as kissing her, or anything else?

I've done some reading on these forums, so because I wasn't under the pressure of face to face talking, I managed to create this hard to get; bad boy image, I'm just afraid my real introverted personality will betray me.It usually helps me when I keep repeating myself "I don't give a fuck about what anyone thinks", but I usually take that to extreme, and become kind of annoying.Any remedy to that?

"Don't give a fuck" mentality is retarded, because you obviously do give a fuck! It's the wrong attitude to take anyway.

The best thing to do is to think of it as being "I'm the one in charge". It's way more attractive and way less... socially special.

As for first date tips:
- Kino, kino, kino. Be touchy and touchy feely - better to get told off for grabbing her hand slyly than be dickless and do nothing.
- Change venues. Make sure you have a plan to move around as for some reason that seems to work well for me on first dates.
- Be interesting!

Your goal should definitely be a K-Close and that is always achievable..

S.

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AFC turning into a PUA.

THINK OF,,,WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE IT FUN FOR US...THEN USING EMBEDDED COMMANDS POSITION OR CHALLENGE HER TO DO THE SAME. YOUR GOAL IS ONLY TO HAVE FUN AND FINDING OUT ABOUT HER. IF YOU GO OUT TO DINE AND SHE TRYS TO SIT MOVE MOVE HER. DO NOT SOT SIT ACROSS FROM HER SIT NEXT TO HER, AS YOU ARE WALKING PUT HER ARM IN YOURS EVEN IF ITS 7 STEPS UNTIL SHE DOES IT AUTOMATICALLY. CONTINUE USING EMBEDDED COMMANDS VIA QUOTES STORYTELLING ETC FOR THE STATE YOU WANT HET TO FEEL..ATTRACTION,SAFE, FASCINATION, AS YOU DO THAT PUSH AND PULL. FRACTIONATE.

All that makes sense, BUT PLEASE STOP SCREAMING

LOL, BRO I AM 53 YEARS OLD I WASNT SCREAMING. I JUST CANT SEE

Date went great, and I could sense she wasn't going to oppose and resistance
I managed to hold her hand from a very early stage of seeing her, and kissing her was very easy too
Date went very smooth, and I feel pretty awesome about it
My question now is, when do I set up the next date?
Also, do I let her initiate the first contact, or should I do it?

Messaged her to set up a second date, and she told me she thinks I'm funny, but nothing more
I had a lot of fun with her, I improved my game by a lot, read her palm, hugged her, hold her hands and kissed several times
Now she's saying she just wants to be friends, but that obviously won't work for me, so what's the best step from here?
1)Simply ignore her, and if she ever gets back in touch I see where it goes from there
2)Reply with an "Ok" message, and ignore her after that

I couldn't maintain the bad boy frame I established through messages,so she didn't like the real me.I'm cool with that, and aware of the fact I can't repair this to make it work out.But is there any kind of reason to remain friends with her, cause I sure as hell don't want to be friendzoned